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Would it BU to report this store clerk to his manager?

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NoPillows · 25/04/2015 15:04

I've just been into Sainsbury's. I look young for my age (not a stealth boast, it's relevant). Among other things I also bought some alcohol. I went to the self-check out tills where the attending store clerk asked me for ID, checked it and I got on with paying for the items all good so far.

Before leaving the store I went to buy cigarettes. When I asked the person staffing that area for the cigarettes he loudly declares "Gosh! You sound younger than me, do you have any ID" I give him my license and then he looks at it and says "oh 1984!" He then holds my license in the air next to my head and loudly ponders "are you sure this is you... I mean your hair is down, are you sure its you!?" I get frustrated and tell him to leave it then (because obviously if he doesn't think its me he's not at liberty to sell me anything).

He then says "No, no, I was just wondering because of your hair" he still has my ID in the air looking at it and then back at me. He does in the end sell me the cigarettes and his colleague next to him says "you've upset her." I then tell him that "he shouldn't treat customers like that" As I walk away he says "sorry miss."

I'd rather he just refused to sell me the cigarettes and I'd have just left, there was no need for this stand off which left me feeling a little bit humiliated. I know that in the big scheme of things it doesn't matter but I really didn't like the way he went on about the whole thing.

I rang the general enquiry line to ask what procedures they'd have in place for bad customer service. I told the rep that I wouldn't want to report him if it meant that he'd lose his job. The rep said in all likelihood he wouldn't lose his job but the store manager would have a word with him and he advised I contact the store directly. So should I call the store manager?

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hobNong · 26/04/2015 18:52

Why are people giving op such a hard time?

She said she accepts that he has to check Id and had no problem with that.
She does have a sense of humour.
What she did not like was that the man took his time in making loud, personal remarks about her appearance.

As I said earlier, I had a similar experience in sainsburys once and it was embarrassing and I wish I'd complained. It isn't good customer service to make the customer feel embrassed or humiliated.

NoPillows · 26/04/2015 19:45

Oh hello TheWildRumpy How goes it? And also a shout out to you Writerwannabe Have u managed to land that publishing deal yet? NadiaWadia I'm not in North america, I'm in the UK but I'm glad that that is what you found to be the most unreasonable point in this whole situation. You truly deserve a noble prize. Where are you based and how can I nominate you?

Thanks hobNong exactly my point!

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NoPillows · 26/04/2015 19:46

ElizabethHoover lol at 'clerk' Thanks. So glad I gave you a good laugh! Have you recovered yet??

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NoPillows · 26/04/2015 19:49

Nobel Prize! I mean Nadia*

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Writerwannabe83 · 26/04/2015 19:53

You have a serious chip on your shoulder.

Aridane · 26/04/2015 20:12

OMFG - reading the OP's threads, i am so pleased I don't work in retail.

NoPillows · 26/04/2015 20:13

You have a serious chip on your shoulder Writerwannabe83

No I don't but I suppose it does show why you're still a writer in waiting. Never quite managed did you But look there's actually an emoji Sad

I've said it too many times on this thread that I didn't appreciate the way he went about the transaction and he could have just said 'NO' and I'd have been fine.

Are you bored tonight?

Are you ok hun??

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NoPillows · 26/04/2015 20:15

OMFG - reading the OP's threads, i am so pleased I don't work in retail Aridane Good for you!!! Here Flowers especially from me!!!

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Writerwannabe83 · 26/04/2015 20:20
Grin
NoPillows · 26/04/2015 20:24

Writerwannabe83 A compliment? I'm treading carefully on this thread Wink

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kali110 · 26/04/2015 22:08

Ahh yes, i see my spelling mistake and no apostrophes made my post so hard for you to understand, i do apologise.
Cashier caught selling to underage people = a fine, loss of job
Cashiers job to check id is the person requesting age restricted products.
Any easier?
For someone who states that they felt humiliated by this cashier, you've tried your best to belittle the people who haven't agreed with you on here!
Poor cashier couldn't win you said it yourself , you were going to complain either way!

NoPillows · 26/04/2015 22:31

Thanks kali Nothing I can say will make you reasonable so I think I'll just accept that you happen to be quite an idiot.

I haven't tried my best to 'belittle people.' I think you are now just playing dumb... but then again you must have a very boring life. I guess this is the most excitement you must have had in years! I'm so glad I gave you a reason to be!!!! Go ME!!!

I've already answered all the questions you raise so now I think you are just being funny. Flowers Are you bored?? Poor you! You must have such a pathetic life..

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NoPillows · 26/04/2015 22:34

Thanks kali you really are quite stupid if you've read the thread and my responses yet continue as you are! Are you OK??? Maybe you'd like a hug hun???

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CalleighDoodle · 26/04/2015 22:42

Nopillows, you are being incredibly rude.

NoPillows · 26/04/2015 22:42

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NoPillows · 26/04/2015 22:43

Doodle I'd invite you to do the same!

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ClumsyNinja · 26/04/2015 22:43

Are you pissed OP or is obnoxious your normal state?

AIBU = Yes.

NoPillows · 26/04/2015 22:45

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Undefined · 26/04/2015 22:49

WTF is going on here. NoPillows your posts are just fucking bizarre.

CalleighDoodle · 26/04/2015 22:52

And you did invite opinion. You asked if the opinion of others on here was you were being unreasonable. You were.

kali110 · 26/04/2015 23:33

See, my post was quite correct.
Trying to belittle people, when it clearly doesn't work you resort to insults.
Only person with a pathetic life is the one who has to swear and insult others.
Yes you did invite opinions, that is what starting a thread asking a question is for.

kali110 · 26/04/2015 23:35

No not giving me much excitement, i'm not the one writing lots of responses ( some of which are repeated) to just one post.
Are you ok?

Dumpylump · 26/04/2015 23:45

Yabu, and a bit weird tbh

NoPillows · 27/04/2015 00:12

Kali I've tried to be reasonable with you and explain my position. So why you are still harangining me? I suppose it's is because you lead quite a sad and desperate life. Your post was not quite correct I don't belittle people and then resort to insults. I invited opinions and arguments. Not comments that you made trying to state a point I never was bothered with in the first place. I do feel very sorry for you and your inability to grasp basic verbs and adjectives.

Doodle I did ask for opinions but I didn't ask for the abuse. Dumpy Same to you, I really can't be bothered with keyboard warriors. You must feel very brave.

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NoPillows · 27/04/2015 00:15

The fact that you both still post on this thread is evidence enough how pathetic you both are and how you clearly have not understood the thread. Honestly are you both so difficult in RL?? I feel sorry for those that come across you both. Are you always this difficult or only occasionally??

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