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to name my little girl this?

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lightsalive · 18/04/2015 09:16

I have two boys already and am expecting a little girl in 3 months.

I like the name Brogan as the first name. I have read this is a male Irish name but know a few girls called brogan.

When I tell people the name they do that . Oh that's nice....With a weird smile face.

Do you like Brogan Rose or Brogan Raine? Or am I being silly.

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ppeatfruit · 19/04/2015 08:19

Sootgremlin Yes I agree totally.

GerbilsAteMyCat · 19/04/2015 09:35

You could try the exotic Vogon instead? ;) (sorry)

MargotLovedTom · 19/04/2015 09:43

It's an ugly sounding name which makes me think of bogey and bog,

ppeatfruit · 19/04/2015 10:21

squoosh It also depends on whether the DD likes her own name. IMO it's a bit Hmm to go with an outlandish name without thought for the child that's going to have to make a conscious decision to change it if they don't like it, it's not fair.

At least if it's a 'usual' name there's less to get bullied about.

NoelHeadbands · 19/04/2015 10:39

It's hardly Moonunit Grin

I like it, I don't know any myself but I like that lots of other people seem to know only lovely Brogans Smile

I actually quite like Bro as a nick name as well

CuntCourtIsInSession · 19/04/2015 12:26

Moon Unit is a much prettier name. Grin

I am very surprised there are people here who've heard of it used as a first name, to be honest. Speaking as an actual Irisher, you would be laughed down the street for calling your child Brogan.

TheNewStatesman · 19/04/2015 12:35

I think it's really awful.

Broken. Bogey. Ogre. Very ugly.

It's fake-Irish sounding, and very American (and not in a good way).

I hate the trend of giving boys' names to girls. I bet the people who do this would never dream of calling their son Rachel etc. If the name itself catches on as a girl's name, it makes things hard for boys who already have the name.

Morro · 19/04/2015 12:55

I know a Brogan, in Ireland. I think it's a nice name.

Also the OP has said pages ago she has decided on the name. Some of the later posts are pretty harsh.

silverglitterpisser · 19/04/2015 14:13

I think anything with Raine sounds like a dodgy fortune teller in a seaside town! Brogan Rose, however, is really lovely.

minouwasminou · 19/04/2015 16:23

I am known for my love of unusual names (got a good-natured and humorous kicking on here for Tostig a few years ago), but I'm really not feeling Brogan. It feels empty somehow...no firm meaning, or provenance.

Sootgremlin · 19/04/2015 17:10

Yeah, Tostig wouldn't be for me, minou, I'd worry about losing him in Ikea Grin

I think the provenance point is a good one, I find it harder to take to names of dubious origin for some reason.

BackCrackandNappySack · 19/04/2015 17:19

I don't dislike the surname for first name thing per se, I have a DC with one myself, (boy) but I do think it really depends on the name and it's a bit weird to call a girl something that is such a masculine sounding surname and I agree Brogan sounds harsh and ugly and too much like bog/ogre/bogan/bogey/bogus. None of them are terribly nice associations. Confused

Teawaster · 19/04/2015 17:31

Don't like it

muminhants · 19/04/2015 17:36

I wouldn't want a name that was constantly confusing people. You (as in people, not you personally) have to remember that you're not naming a baby, you're naming a future adult. So think about how people will react to that name in an adult. When your daughter walks into a room, do you want people to say "oh I thought you'd be a bloke".

My husband has a masculine name, but it is a girl's name in France, and the contraction is a girl's name in the US. It doesn't tend to confuse anyone in the UK though.

SteelyMindedLiberal · 19/04/2015 18:11

Another thumbs down, sorry - bogan is the Aussie word for 'chav' as loads have said, and that's the first thing I thought of. Closely followed by 'bogey'. And 'brogues'.

You should do precisely as you please, though. Obviously.

PS Rose miles better than Raine, in my humble etc

TenerifeSea · 19/04/2015 18:22

I like it actually. It makes me think a feisty, strong woman. :)

ceebelle83 · 19/04/2015 20:25

Ghastly.

I hate this American trend for plucking random Irish surnames out of the ether and giving them to children as first names.

I have never met a fellow Irish person who does not find this fad both ridiculous and unfair to the poor child.

natwebb79 · 21/04/2015 15:32

Both Brogans I've taught had a Scottish parent so I assumed it was Gaelic but obviously not. I'm pretty surprised at the outrage. As a teacher I come across some 'ahem' interesting names but I find Brogan pretty inoffensive.

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