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To be annoyed that expectations of me at work are different because I'm child-free?

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Lavenderice · 13/04/2015 12:09

So I work in a team of 8 people, one is male and the rest of us are female, everyone has children apart from me. I am increasingly asked to do tasks which are other peoples responsibility because they need to happen first thing in the morning or last thing in the afternoon and other people need to school-runs or have childcare issues. This morning I had to leave 90 minutes earlier than usual to do something for somebody else because she had to take her child to school. A few weeks ago I had a similar journey because the person was heavily pregnant and "just couldn't do it". We work on flexi time so whilst we have core hours the nature of the work sometimes means we need to work extra hours, which we are credited for. This is mentioned when we are interviewed for the post but it irks me when people can't do it because they're parents.

For the record I don't mind helping out as we are an industry which naturally attracts women of child baring age and I appreciate it's difficult, but lately it seems more of an expectation than a favour.

OP posts:
Lavenderice · 16/04/2015 23:35

Sorry I've just got in from a stupidly busy day. Things went really well I told him exactly how I felt and the look on his face went from penny-drop to sheepish in seconds. He completely agreed that the team does tend to lean on me for things that are done out of hours and promised steps to ensure this doesn't happen in the future. He also said that if it starts to happen again I need to tell him immediately. AND I get to take some flexi and have a half day tomorrow.

Thanks everyone for your wise-words.

OP posts:
HelenaDove · 16/04/2015 23:55

Great result OP Hope he follows through.

Aridane · 17/04/2015 05:34

Well done, OP??

OnlyLovers · 17/04/2015 14:55

Wahay! Well done, OP. Hope you enjoy(ed) your half-day.

zeezeek · 17/04/2015 20:35

Well done! Have been following the thread, but everyone has said what I was going to - so pleased its been sorted. Good luck.

youarekiddingme · 18/04/2015 06:30

Well done. Flowers

Puzzledandpissedoff · 18/04/2015 15:08

Very pleased for you, lavenderice, and I do hope your manager sees this through. If it means the parents among the staff doing more they'll probably kick and whine, so it will need a firm hand to manage the changes ...

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