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Neighbour won't give me my parcel!

397 replies

Nannyplum2015 · 24/03/2015 16:22

I've problems with this neighbour before over parking.

She's had a parcel of mine since Wednesday last week and I know she is in but she is refusing to open the door. Wibu if I knocked the door down? It's a present I need to give to someone on Saturday.

OP posts:
bloodyteenagers · 24/03/2015 23:16

Op, seriously you have to grow a spine and a pair of balls.
The mad woman tried stealing your parking space, and really you did nothing.
Now she has stolen your parcel and you are taking the wet blanket approach.

When are you going to stand up to this person?

MidniteScribbler · 24/03/2015 23:28

The twit that keeps on giving.

butterfly2015 · 24/03/2015 23:55

Mn need a new forum called Nanny plums crazy neighbour.

I have no idea what to suggest but maybe drop off a creme egg, she might be having a bad day.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 24/03/2015 23:58

Oooh she's probably been itching for this chance to get her revenge on Parking-Gate.

fattymcfatfat · 25/03/2015 00:05

jesus! crazy lady Shock

I would have knocked her feckin door in by now.
at least phone the police and have Ms.Batshit done for stealing!

AGnu · 25/03/2015 00:27

Right, I've just read the entirety of the previous 2 threads about NDN. No idea how I missed them originally but I'm not missing out on this saga! Grin

steppedonlego · 25/03/2015 00:32

Just read the entire thread about crazy NDN. Get a drumstick/ladle/other knocking implement, and when you know she's in, let DD play drums on her door until she opens. DD can then ask for parcel Grin

EstRusMum · 25/03/2015 00:35

Weeeeee!!! Crazy NDN lady thread. +1 vote for another forum about her. Or at least every title should be "Nannyplum's crazy NDN thread"
not marking myself at all

HappenstanceMarmite · 25/03/2015 07:25

Any news NannyPlum?!

EauRouge · 25/03/2015 07:31

Bloody hell, her again! Wasn't there an estate manager? Would he/she be able to help with this sort of thing. I'd definitely ask the postie not to leave any more parcels with her.

londonrach · 25/03/2015 07:36

Loving some typs itsme got me giggling then the lick police.....dh just asked if im ok. (Graps some popcorn)

llamallamaredpyjama · 25/03/2015 07:39

Hooker29 Shock it's like walking into John Lewis and picking it up from the shelf and walking out, Unbelievable!!

antumbra · 25/03/2015 07:45

I wouldn;t persue things with this woman.

You ordered this item from a supplier and it is their responsibility to get it to you. They subcontracted the courier/Royal Mail - if you don't have it claim non- arrival. It's up to them to sort it out.

Original poster
Nannyplum2015 · 25/03/2015 08:57

Well I caught her coming out of her house this morning and I've been completely blanked! I even started walking next to her saying could u please have my parcel and she's point blank ignored me. I honestly feel like moving house as she gives me the impression this is not the last thing she's going to do.

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coolaschmoola · 25/03/2015 09:00

I would ring 101 now. I doubt anything less would have any impact.

BitOutOfPractice · 25/03/2015 09:03

I think you need to talk to the post office first, then call 101

TheNothingGirl · 25/03/2015 09:06

In light of your update I would ring 101, if nothing else getting the police to talk to her will show her your not a pushover as you are prepared to escalate things as and when you need too.

msrisotto · 25/03/2015 09:07

Wtf is wrong with this woman? I'd call the non emergency police number on her

SteppeAwayFromTheKeyboard · 25/03/2015 09:07

You need to get the post office to sort this. She is obviously doing it as return for the parking.

If the post man knocked on her door and asked for it back, she would give it I think.

Leave a big note for the postie on your front door, say the neighbour is mad and won't talk to you re. parcel, please could he retrieve it and leave it in xx place.

If postie has no luck, then phone 101

EstRusMum · 25/03/2015 09:07

Yaaay, police must be involved. Getting interesting...Brew

butterfly2015 · 25/03/2015 09:08

I'd call the police too. This is theft. She sounds like a fucking loon and I imagine this will escalate.

BitterChocolate · 25/03/2015 09:11

OK, so now she can't pretend that she has been unavailable to give you back your parcel, so I would definitely phone 101 and ask for advice. If she didn't want to engage with you she could have refused the parcel, but she did take it and is now refusing to return it (by refusing to speak to you) and that is theft IMO.

swazza · 25/03/2015 09:13

Oh God she sounds mental!

What a cow bag.

101 now - see if they can offer any advice. Would just love out of pure spite to see her face if the police or PCSO turns up on her doorstep!

I am on the fence deciding if you should just not engage further with her on this and hope 101 may send someone around for a polite word or pop a note through her door referring to your convesration with her and asking for the parcel by X time tonight. Then perhaps ask (in a PA way) do you think you are safe still living on your own? Are you coping as you seemed detatched and not with it when I was speaking to you today. As a neighbour I am concerned you are not coping and could maybe do with some outside helpyou fucking nutter!!

Lj8893 · 25/03/2015 09:21

Wow she has issues doesn't she!

I love the sellotape idea!!

You definitely need to call 101, it's outright theft.

Allbymyselfagain · 25/03/2015 09:25

Police now, definately police. Although im sure my medical suggestion mistake is looking quite handy now too!

Good luck nanny I think you are going to need it.