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...To think the mum who attacked bullies is RIGHT?

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candidkate · 19/03/2015 13:40

Just read this story

www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/i-know-what-wrong-im-8870532

This poor mum has witnessed her DD be bullied for years. 15 school kids had the balls to even show up at her home screaming abuse, threatening to kill her poor DD! She comes home furious and attacks one of them, punching the other who tried to break it up.

I don't condone violence full stop. But these were 14 year old hardly little kids who do not know better. I'm sorry but I'm putting my hands on you before you ever harm my child!

It was a daunting situation - she had even called the police and what did they do? Nothing. Kids are killing themselves while schools and police twiddle their thumbs. Enough it enough!

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RocketInMyPocket · 21/03/2015 10:36

I think to be honest most people are arguing the same point, albeit from different angles.

I don't think many people would argue that a 13 year old should be tried as an adult.

My point was that children can be held criminally responsible from the age of ten, however often enough, not much is actually done.

I'm not suggesting lock them up and throw away the key, just that just because they're still children, doesn't stop them being extremely dangerous.

People lives can, and are, made a living misery by these children.
As pointed out by a PP, they see things like walking away, turning the other cheek, being the bigger person etc as a weakness.

I've seen a shopkeeper threatening to call the police of a group of 'tweens' before, and them laugh in his face, tell him 'What are they gonna do', and carry of tormenting him.

Essentially people need to feel safe, and need to feel that the police are there to protect them, and especially in the cases of 'tweens' this doesn't always seem to happen. Which leads to them feeling 'untouchable'.

I'm not saying that rehabilitation isn't important, nor that these kids don't deserve second chances etc, just that these things shouldn't happen at the expense of people's safety and mental health.

Squiggs86 · 06/02/2020 02:39

If it was my house and my kid I would have smacked them all! How dare they!! I am alive to protect my children and if they have the audacity to come to my door well then that was “premeditated”!! My reaction is purely “protection” . Who’s in control these day’s?

FrenchBoule · 06/02/2020 02:51

Zombie thread

Brazi103 · 06/02/2020 06:36

I dont blame her. That 13yo shit deserved it. oh please a 13yo wants to act all big and tough - they deserve it and more.

LettertoHermoine · 06/02/2020 07:43

I understand it, when you see your child being battered, scared, bullied for years, she just snapped. 15 kids outside my house baying for blood and trying to intimidate me and my child, you bet I would snap. Can you IMAGINE how scary that is? 14 year olds are not tiny children. She was probably at the end of her tether. I don't blame her for losing it but when people are hurting your child and you have mob mentality outside egging your house and saying they are going to kill your child, I guess you don't think straight. I am not saying what she did was right but I do understand how she was driven to react the way she has.

Tomselleckhaskindeyes · 06/02/2020 08:02

My mum was bullied by 14 year old girls after my dad died. She had eggs chucked at her house and suffered terrible anxiety because of it. I got the ring leader and had a few words with her. I don’t think she was expecting to see the 25 year old daughter coming after her. I told her if there was any more issues I would come after her and it wouldn’t be pleasant. It did stop the bullying of my poor mum so I suppose the end justified the means.

My dad did something very similar when a group of lads was intimidating a 90 year old women.

user1473878824 · 06/02/2020 08:03

This is from 2015, how did you even find it @Squiggs86

MintyMabel · 06/02/2020 08:11

She shouldn’t have hit a child. That is illegal.

Taking the law into your own hands never makes a situation better.

Oulu · 06/02/2020 08:22

Why revive a five year old thread?

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