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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

guest slept naked.

316 replies

chasingtheegg · 26/10/2014 15:22

Aibu?

Had guests to stay last night. It gets mentions casually the next day that he sleeps naked, I laugh and say something along the lines of "only in your own bed I bloody hope!"
..at which point he gets a bit embarrassed and she says "he can't stand wearing pj's!"

We swiftly move on and I mourn the innocence of my pretty sanderson sheets.

Aibu to think you should at least wear undies when sleeping in someone else's home?

Or am I being a prude?

OP posts:
Bowlersarm · 26/10/2014 16:22

Jolleigh you're lucky. I have to have super tampon, and night time huge sanitary towel stuck to huge black pants at least three nights a month, to stop blood going all over the sheets.

londonrach · 26/10/2014 16:22

I use towels never a tampon as thought you not to wear them for more than 4 hours. (No cant do that mooncup). Serious question lego.....when using a tampon do you feel dry downstairs. Sure no leakage.

Brummiegirl15 · 26/10/2014 16:23

I sleep naked all the time, cannot bear wearing stuff in bed and also I love the intimacy of me and DP sleeping naked together.

That said , if I'm a guest in someone's house I do wear knickers in bed and DP wears boxers.

However wouldn't bother me if someone slept naked at mine as I wash the sheets before and after !

SayraT · 26/10/2014 16:23

I also always sleep naked, even when I've got my period. I use a mooncup and never leak. I have lots of PJs and wear them before bed and when I get up Grin

Castlemilk · 26/10/2014 16:25

Good God.

Pyjamas, socks, and cardigan here. Or I shiver.

Poo crumbs, they call them poo crumbs,
Once the guest is in the buff,
There'll be crumbs there right enough
You'll have to WASH THEM HOT
Or else the CRUMBS WILL BLOT

:)

ClashCityRocker · 26/10/2014 16:26

I sleep naked anywhere and everywhere. I've even slept naked on the inlaws living room floor (on a duvet).

Pjs are for lounging about the house in.

LuluJakey1 · 26/10/2014 16:26

DH sleeps naked all the time. I do in the summer but in the winter wear PJs and socks.

He wears pants at PIL house. I wear PJs.

After our wedding we had two nights in a country house hotel. First night we had bacon sandwiches and tea and no sex. Second night we went a bit mad and were in the middle of the second round when the fire alarm went off about 9pm. Had to go outside in hotel towelling wraps looking rumpled with lots of fully dressed people.

Jolleigh · 26/10/2014 16:26

I don't London - I'm a light sleeper with a 6-month old so up a lot in the night. Was up a lot even before DD came along for that matter!

Bowler - I must be very lucky then, even on a heavy flow day I don't leak.

JuniperTisane · 26/10/2014 16:27

SirChenjin Yes, I'm female, and no, not even on my period. I've never leaked. Never come close to it. I do understand I'm quite lucky in this respect though. If there were any possibility I wouldn't put a friend's sheets through it.

NewEraNewMindset · 26/10/2014 16:31

I have LOLed a lot at this thread.

I am a naked sleeper and that would extend to hotel rooms, not sure about friends houses though. Haven't had an adult sleepover since my twenties that required my pants to be kept on Grin

SirChenjin · 26/10/2014 16:32

Very envious Lego! Envy

AnnoyingOrange · 26/10/2014 16:34

Both dh and I sleep naked. I feel constricted in nightwear

Bowlersarm · 26/10/2014 16:34

Well, non leakers - feel lucky. Feel very very lucky Grin

As a 'leaker' it's made staying away quite traumatic at times. If it's the heaviest time of the month I'm up and down all night changing tampons/pads to bypass a mortifying room clean/conversation with the hostess about blood on sheets.

Blood gets on sheets at home, that's fine, it's just me dealing with it plus a very relaxed DH.

Thank fuck I'm fast approaching the menopause. Won't be sorry to see the back of all that.

Zombiepenguinsaresmall · 26/10/2014 16:35

Yabu. I don't sleep naked unless it's really hot, but don't wear much Wink.

And personally I love a naughty bonk in somebody else's bed, just for the hell of it - surely it's rude not to?

Am assuming you'll never invite me to stay op Grin

Sallystyle · 26/10/2014 16:35

I sleep naked.

Hate it when I have to wear knickers and a pad at night when I am on my period in bed. Heavy periods, need two forms of protection at night.

Nothing worse than wearing any item of clothing in bed.

londonrach · 26/10/2014 16:37

Ok im envious of those that dont leak...... I live in near at mil house and have been known to go a day later. My mil is fab and would understand but still.

gamerchick · 26/10/2014 16:37

But but you're not supposed to wear tampax overnight. Confused

Could always clag a towel on sticky side up I suppose.

chasingtheegg · 26/10/2014 16:39
OP posts:
JuniperTisane · 26/10/2014 16:40

Yes you can

I have for the past mumble years with no problems. (Actually I use a menstrual cup now but a tampon in the past)

gotthemoononastick · 26/10/2014 16:40

Picks jaw up off the floor!

But what if there is a fire/a burglar/a prince knocks on the door or eventually you need a care home and you have not learnt to use night clothes yet???

Worried for all the naked ones!

JuniperTisane · 26/10/2014 16:41

Hehe. Nobody is mentioning how clean their arse is are they? Grin

squoosh · 26/10/2014 16:42

I'm a naked sleeper. It wouldn't have occurred to me in a million years that this would distress the owners of any guest beds I've rested my nekkid form in.

JuniperTisane · 26/10/2014 16:42

I have clothes by the bed. I'm not daft.

Spooklingbrook · 26/10/2014 16:45

Bonfire Night soon, I would put all the bedding, mattress, and finally the bed on the bonfire and start afresh. Grin

londonrach · 26/10/2014 16:46

Why cant i know 100% i wont leak. Why? I dont 11 months out of 12 but you never that that first day. I use wings too and night towels. Am i doing something wrong. Op i see you hiding. As said before yabu but i understand your thinking!