guest slept naked.

[chasingtheegg]

Aibu?

Had guests to stay last night. It gets mentions casually the next day that he sleeps naked, I laugh and say something along the lines of "only in your own bed I bloody hope!"
..at which point he gets a bit embarrassed and she says "he can't stand wearing pj's!"

We swiftly move on and I mourn the innocence of my pretty sanderson sheets.

Aibu to think you should at least wear undies when sleeping in someone else's home?

Or am I being a prude?

Mynewpassion- see my post above.

Oh definitely VVVU.

Poor bloke. As PureMorning said, jarmies are for wandering round the house in. Skin is for sleeping in.

So long as he's not a sleepwalker eh!

How can you not wear pj's! I literally can't sleep naked. . Everything's so ... airy and floppy! Ha. Clearly you all have pert small boobs and honed bodies that don't break a sweat in the night! ... pj's are cosy and fab.

Sorry. Too slow typing on phone and missed your post.

This is reminding me of my friend who had guests staying over and she heard them shagging. Nothing was said the next day but she was so cross she got rid of the bed.

And she washed the sheets of course.

Just thought I'd share.

She got rid of the bed :-O ok I'm really not that bad.

do you all shag in the guest rooms too? feels bad for my dh

It wouldn't have killed him to wear a pair of pants, would it? If that was too big a deal then I hope he had the decency to strip his penisy sheets rather than expecting you to touch them

(Oh and tmi. . But dh is a naked sleeper too.. but he always wears shorts etc when we stay somewhere, possibly where I've gone wrong In not realising others don't do the same!)

I have to sleep nakeeed

Maybe in true mumsnet fashion we should now do a survey on how often those naked sleepers change their sheets?

I never stay in peoples homes so no

Getting rid of the bed solved another problem. Said friend has a large house and her mil always assumed that when other family members visited that my friend would put them up. She was never asked if she minded, it was just expected that as she had a spare room with a bed she would play hostess to whoever was visiting. The shagging guests were kind of the final straw for her. No spare room / bed meant no more expectations from her mil.

I would understand if he'd been walking around naked but I'm not bothered what a guest wears in bed.

I do sleep naked myself sometimes but only once as a guest and that's because I was too horrifically drunk to stand up never mind change my clothes. Think I fell asleep in the middle of the process!

Presumably all you nekkid sleepers wear knickers at least for a few nights each month...so could manage to do the same for an odd night as a guest?

Well I have never ever worn nightclothes and have always slept naked.
My sister is the same. One normally washes the bedlinen after a guest leaves.
Sanderson sheets or Asda specials, they all go in the wash. I can't see why that should seem disgusting. The poor chap isn't (I hope) suffering from Ebola!

Just think, next time you ate snuggled into the duvet breathing in the freshly washed scent, his arse has rubbed right against that fabric.

A case of TMI. Perhaps hang a sign over the bed?

LOL! Just read about having pert small boobs and honed bodies!! I have G cup boobs and am a size 20. I reckon I don't qualify then?

Pyjamas are the invention of the devil and are specially engineered to dive up your arse.

I don't wear knickers to bed on any night in the month.

I don't understand why it's a problem for you, OP.

I hate pyjamas and never wear them. Not anywhere. I'll take protective measures if I'm on my period - irrespective of where I am sleeping at the time - and I won't scoot to the loo starkers in someone else's house, but otherwise I sleep naked and any guests I have sleep as they wish to.

I always put clean sheets on the guest bed no matter what.

Presuming you're female Jupiter (obv!) - not even when you have your period?

Some people on MN seem to wear more in bed than out. I've read posts from people who wear bra and pants under pyjamas in bed. How on earth do you keep from overheating?