guest slept naked.

[chasingtheegg]

Aibu?

Had guests to stay last night. It gets mentions casually the next day that he sleeps naked, I laugh and say something along the lines of "only in your own bed I bloody hope!"
..at which point he gets a bit embarrassed and she says "he can't stand wearing pj's!"

We swiftly move on and I mourn the innocence of my pretty sanderson sheets.

Aibu to think you should at least wear undies when sleeping in someone else's home?

Or am I being a prude?

innocent sanderson sheets made me lol!

The spiders get in your vag even if you are wearing knickers. It's not a happy experience for spiders or owners of vags
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Spiders are unlikely to drift vagina-wards, they don't have enough strength in their legs. Beetles and earwigs on the other hand.......

YANBU I think OP, I see the point pp are making but tbh I don't think it's very nice. In reality if my guests didn't tell me and I was blissfully unaware I think I'd be fine, it's just the knowledge of it that I don't feel great about!

Drifty Spider

Uuurgh can you imagine anything worse that an earwig getting into bed with you? They LIKE warm crevices.

Squoosh....if i wear two pants and pjs tonight its your fault....

I always sleep naked, wherever I'm sleeping. Well, unless I'm not 100% confident about the cleanness of someone's sheets ...

Wouldn't shag wile staying over at someone's house though. That seems like poor form to me.

And while I do have small boobs, I'm not particularly 'honed' and I do sweat at night; but I think wearing clothes in bed would make that worse, not better.

Has anyone noticed op is hiding behind her gin bottle in her hello kitten pjs.

OnlyLovers poor form from you if with your username you point-blank-refuse-to-shag-your-lover because you are not at home

I'm at one with the earwigs if the alternative is being uncomfortable in bed

DH and me had never worn night wear in 46 years.He had a pair of PJ's for a hospital stay 30 years ago and I had a 'maternity nightie' which did me for 2 babies.We've had to invest in PJ's now as DGC's stay over frequently and no kids needs to see their GP's in the nip.I can never sleep properly when they're here though.Don't know if it's the PJ's or just being extra alert for the wee ones.

Love my dressing gowns, but they're to keep me warm round the house, don't wear them in bed.
Am amazed at the things some people find to worry about. Spiders in fanjos! It would have to be a very determined spider, no, can't take that one seriously.

Bowlers, no no no it's not!

My name doesn't mean I'm only a lover (typing that made me feel like James Brown with a chest-wig and a medallion )

Jolleigh earwigs now im not sleeping and it be your fault...shudder..

OnlyLovers.

No contraception in action at chez Lego!

Was always on implant or injection when I did use it and had no periods at all. I was traumatised when I came off the implant last year and started having periods again for the first time in over a decade!

Those nasty spiders, they get everywhere don't they? Do you suppose one might make a web up there?

Husband sleeps nude as well. If I scream in the night with a nightmare, a nice white set of teeth appears at my door in the dark. It's all you can see of him as he's as black as soot.

I went to stay at my pal's mum's house. Her son had stayed the night before with his girlfriend. Either she hadn't heard what they were up to or they had made the bed so neatly she didn't check it.

I am no prude but there were shady marks and stains on that sheet. And hairs. Lots of hairs. My jammies were well and truly on. I hope they hadn't been propping themselves up with the pillows during. The sad thing is she probably thought I was a dirty article.

I have a few dressing gowns, for cuddling up on the sofa, and for answering the door when the postie comes if I've been on night shift. Once I've walked the dog and had tea, I love changing into my jammies. Much more comfortable.

I do sometimes sleep naked. Don't feel quite so comfortable doing so at my friends houses, most have small children who bound in first thing. If the hotel is nice I may sleep naked but always have clothes to slip into should the fire alarm go off. I bought jammies and flea spray hurriedly one trip after viewing a pic on trip advisor. Somebody's belly had been bitten rigid by bugs. Grim.

Hatespiders... loving the idea of cobwebbed vag...you know your love life is on the wane when....

They had probably done that thing where you put pillows under your bum when TTC Comin.

I can't sleep if I'm not wearing anything, it's usually just pants and a baggy tshirt but anything less feels horrible! I even wear socks to bed, I can't stand bare feet

I take my own pillow. Everywhere.

Wise, Sparkling very wise.

Excuse me while I exfoliate with some Vim.

Thanks OP. and I am totally with you re:conjugal relations too. I REALLY don't want any of that going on chez nous.