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AIBU?

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AIBU to my boyfriends cats

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Random1999 · 20/09/2014 16:20

Basically my boyfriend has 3 cats, all 3 go off for days on end (all female have had the snip so thats why they're allowed to), 2 of 3 are quite aggressive and scratch, bite and hiss at me. The longest theyve gone off is for a month we see them in the local woodland sometimes. I'm concerned because of what they might be bringing in, such as toxic plasmosis (which can cause miscarriage and im 15 weeks), they're semi wild as 2 of them were raised on the local farm and never indoors until now they only come in to eat and/or terrorise i cant stand them if im honest but put up with it until i caught pregnant now im asking my boyfriend to keep them out 24/7 and only bring them into the back porch for food at night i dont want them near me and FIL agrees its best.
my boyfriend however doesnt think its fair and is constantly throwing his toys out of his pram because of it yeah i know he loves them but seriously they've been seen licking slugs for christ sake and are always fighting with wild cats (lots of them around here) so who knows what they might have and pass on to me if they're around me all the time, AIBU? I might sound a bit precious but seriously theyre disgusting, they lick slugs, jump in the toilet for a drink and are always fighting with other strays and wild cats so who knows whats being passed around...

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TerribleMother · 22/09/2014 13:02

I think the op decided to hide the thread, probably the best idea for her, it was particularly unpleasant at times.

FreeSpirit89 · 22/09/2014 13:46

Don't let them on the bed (My cat slept on my pillow last night surrounding my head like a furry hat!)

Kitchen counters are not a problem that's what bleach was invented for. I have a pack of anti bac wipes. and use them on surfaces before I prepare food.

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