In my heart of hearts, I want Scotland to stay as part of the UK. I think that together, we are more than the sum of our parts.
I don't think that the UK functions better as a whole, politically-speaking, but I wouldn't like animosity between the people living in each country.
I get on well with the English side of the family, and would hate to think that people would fall out just over nationality. English-living-in-Scotland aunt has said she will be gutted if Scotland votes No, she doesn't see it as wanting to cut the country off, rather doing what she thinks best for the country she lives in, and plans to stay in. I hope this is what the majority of voters have in mind, no matter which way they vote.