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AIBU to think that if you want Rupert and Emily to stop running you need to grab hold of them

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Morgause · 01/06/2014 18:11

We have had a lovely day at a National Trust house. Lovely to see families out enjoying the sunshine and having picnics in the grounds. And lovely to see that most DC were behaving beautifully while still having fun.

Rupert and Emily were exceptions. We went inside the house and turned a corner to see Rupert charging through a room narrowly missing several people. The guide in the room told him he mustn't run. His dad said he had to do as he was told. Rupert shouts, "No!" and runs off pursued by Emily. Mum tells dad to stop them. Dad says she should stop them. They run back. Mum says in the most ineffectual voice I've ever heard, "Rupert and Emily you mustn't run, you could hurt yourselves." "Or someone else," remarked the guide.

Rupert and Emily run round mum in circles. Mum shouts at them to hold her hand, they won't. Dad says he'll take them out. Sadly, he doesn't.

Rupert and Emily run into the next room and crawl under the red rope sectioning off the "do not enter" area. The guide tells them to come out. They won't. Mum and dad arrive and tell them to come out. They won't. Dad steps over rope and grabs them. Sadly he lets them go again and they run off.

We decided to explore a different area of the house.

They were aged about 4 and 6. God help their teachers.

OP posts:
Summerbreezing · 02/06/2014 22:41

I don't see people 'pointing out patterns in posting fairly frequently'. It seems like a rather sad and dull thing to do, and speaks of someone not really being able to make an original and clever argument.

sittinginthemorningsun · 02/06/2014 22:49

Actually harole we're talking about a poster being nasty and unpleasant to another poster to the extent that she feels she feels she has to change her username to avoid further personal attacks.

And a moral compass is something you apply to your everyday actions. It's not some lofty concept.

HaroldLloyd · 02/06/2014 22:56

Mentioning a previous thread on mumnet is hardly crime of the century.

Still you seem to enjoy getting outraged about it so I'll leave you to it.

sittinginthemorningsun · 02/06/2014 23:01

Not outraged, harold just despising of that behaviour.

Where did anyone say it was 'crime of the century? Smile

HaroldLloyd · 02/06/2014 23:03

Not outraged, just despising. Oh right. So different Grin

sittinginthemorningsun · 02/06/2014 23:04

Yes, they are actually. Look them up Grin

Vintagejazz · 02/06/2014 23:36

YANBU OP. Or judgey or smug. That behaviour would annoy most people. Can't understand what your previous posts have to do with it. We've all probably posted on similar things a number of times. I know I certainly have. Sorry you have to namechange.

Morgause · 03/06/2014 06:11

I'm not a delicate flower but I did feel a bit creeped out so it was probably time for a name change anyway. I have a few "friends" here on MN and I'll let them know my new identity.

The first 2 names I tried were already taken but I'll persevere.

I'll still use Morgause on a few threads until they fade away.

Thanks for the supportive posts.

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drinkingtea · 03/06/2014 06:27

Hmm what a ridiculous storrm in a tea cup. sitting I fail to see how mentioning a previous thread is more inpleasant than judging parents who may be at the end of their tether and thinking its OK to take the piss out of them because they have MC names. However this whole pointing and onsult slinging is exactly what is dull, not mentioning remembering a similar thread (I could swear more than 1, but not having searched am not sure)...

Thanks for having a sense of proportion Harold [th

Vintagejazz · 03/06/2014 11:10

Where did the OP judge parents who were at the end of their tether or take the piss out of the children's names? What's funny about a little girl called Emily?
As for the parents being at the end of their tether - standing around ineffectually and making the occasional attempt to control their childre,n and absolutelly no effort to simply take them outside is not parents at the end of their tether - it's parents who just couldn't be arsed to do anything and didn't care that their kids were annoying everyone else.

Vintagejazz · 03/06/2014 11:12

Oh and your exact words were

"I was predominantly thinking of the OP our as she revels in posting threads like this - I know its "bad form" to refer to other threads, but I recognise her name from similar "I saw a terrible parent today" threads (in which she always mentioned several posts in that she did it better)."

That is not 'mentioning remembering a similar thread. That is implying that the OP is constantly posting threads on a similar theme.

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