Aibu to thing she's a bad mother when I don't know her ??.

[Kitty18]

I never judge anyone cos I think that's just wrong but there's a mum in the baby groups I go to about four . She's got a toddler and a newborn her mother comes to help as well but it always seems she's never with her toddler just her baby and today she was with the other young babies mums bit of the group and her toddler climb on a chair t
So he can see his mum then run towards her but in sec she ushered her mum over to get him . I think that's really bad I would never do that . What do you all think ? Am I bang on or just being a bitch

Does house value count as money we'll ever see?

Perhaps the OP is a proof reader for the Daily Mail?

Fide 'cause you want KM to wear knickers!

Will the op's 'friend' come on in a minute, using her account, and tell us all off because the OP is on the verge of topping herself because we are bullying middle class bitches?

Do we think?

*Are you new to Mumsnet op?

Generally this is a support site, where we try to support parents, not just decide they are "bad" because they aren't martyrs.*

maryz has it exactly right. And your last post made you look like a little sulky child, running off and crying. Don't be so bloody silly!

Take it on the chin, you were judgemental and nasty and you can learn from this and be a bit nicer in future.

Good call devere...

Who has seen the most money? Does it have to have been in ine go?

Cash?

Oh shit is MNHQ swathed in union jack bunting?

Wow, you sound delightful! This woman is so lucky to know a person like you!
To answer your question, yes, you are being a bitch. How dare you judge somebody for the parenting you see in a snippet. How on earth do you know she doesn't go home and fawn over the eldest?! I can't believe this post.
FWIW, I'm a young mum and I don't prefer my youngest at all. What a crazy generalisation!

Op I hope you can see from this thread that it is unfair to judge another mum on wharnyou have told us. She doesn't sound like she has done anything wrong. There is nothing wrong with having some help with her toddler so she can focus on her newborn for a while. You will probably find that she has to give most of her attention to the toddler at home so was taking the opportunity to spend time with the newborn while the toddler was happy playing.

I think you get the point now anyway, but as you can see, things like this don't go down too well here.

I had a job counting money as a teen, doubt that beats 18 years in a bank though. That poster might have it.

Ha, I'm a much worser mum than that OP. When DD was born I put DS (age 2.5) into nursery full time for the first 8 weeks. Top that!

devere i'm voting it'll be her partner

Bingo!

Or her mum?

This is the most money.
Lots O Money

Maybe she wants a bit of a break from the toddler whilst he's entertained at playgroup.

I have a toddler and a 15 week old and (if I make it to playgroup), I'm happy if toddler busies himself so I can chat with the mums with the babies.

Yabu and, yes, judgemental.

Oh shit is MNHQ swathed in union jack bunting

Km doesn't wear knickers?! :O no way!

That's not proper money Boff - it's dollars - they won't take that in Londis.

Very weird thread. Full moon?

I thought it was just money we had seen. Like piles of it on the telly. Or when playing monopoly.

Does it have to be money we own?

I couldn't believe it either Koothra - here have a for the shock.

Does it have to be money we own?

Our guest house is constructed entirely from bundles of fivers so i'm good either way.