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Aibu to thing she's a bad mother when I don't know her ??.

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Kitty18 · 30/05/2014 20:56

I never judge anyone cos I think that's just wrong but there's a mum in the baby groups I go to about four . She's got a toddler and a newborn her mother comes to help as well but it always seems she's never with her toddler just her baby and today she was with the other young babies mums bit of the group and her toddler climb on a chair t
So he can see his mum then run towards her but in sec she ushered her mum over to get him . I think that's really bad I would never do that . What do you all think ? Am I bang on or just being a bitch

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Kitty18 · 30/05/2014 21:10

Liberty wow I can't spell yeah my writeing shit but I bet I make more in a week then your ever see ( now that was me being a bitch) I know she's a bad mother typical only likening when there newborns type .

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Mrsjayy · 30/05/2014 21:11

I think you need some adult compsny to talk to being so wrwpped in your child is affecting yiur judgement of this woman and other parents you ard not yhe bestest mother ever because you give yoyr kid all the attentio and dont socialise good for you thougb eh

Mrsjayy · 30/05/2014 21:11

God typos

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FidelineandFumblin · 30/05/2014 21:11

Haven't you got anything better to think about?

Maybe she considers baby group her social time? Maybe she has a health condition? Maybe 'bad mother' is a horrible sexist concept? Maybe it has fuck all to do with you?

Koothrapanties · 30/05/2014 21:12

Mrsj are you on the wine tonight? Grin

FidelineandFumblin · 30/05/2014 21:13

I know she's a bad mother typical only likening when there newborns type

Eh? Is that even english?

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 30/05/2014 21:13

Why on earth would you judge this?

potatofactory · 30/05/2014 21:13

'I bet I make more in a week then your ever see'

Really?

Didn't take much!

You are being unreasonable.

TheNewSchmoo · 30/05/2014 21:13

You're

FidelineandFumblin · 30/05/2014 21:14

I know she's a bad mother typical only likening when there newborns type

Oh you mean the baby is typing for you? That explains it.

diege · 30/05/2014 21:15

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EatDessertFirst · 30/05/2014 21:15

Grin at Mrsjayy

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Mrsjayy · 30/05/2014 21:17

Not yet bloody new tablet doodah keep missing keys

CatThiefKeith · 30/05/2014 21:17

Roll on Monday when the schools go back.

and surely everyone knows it's Worra?Grin

gordyslovesheep · 30/05/2014 21:17

the mum is about 4? I'm not surprised her mum comes with her Hmm

EatDessertFirst · 30/05/2014 21:17

Bless. Maybe consider spending some of that money you make so much of on writing English lessons? Then we could all mock your judge-iness properly because we could actually read it.

RabbitSaysWoof · 30/05/2014 21:17

Maybe the mother had a c section so had her mum catch the running toddler at the group so he didn't run straight into her.
Thats the thing that puts me off of having a second with a bouncy toddler that I felt so physicaly vulnerable for ages and my toddler hurts me now when he runs at me playing he launches himself at me.

PixieofCatan · 30/05/2014 21:17

YWBU before you started being insulting, now you're just being rude Hmm

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Helpys · 30/05/2014 21:18

And this is why I would never live in a village.

Kitty18 · 30/05/2014 21:19

When I see a kid upset like he was I do think about it seeing that upsets me if that's make me bad so be it one thing you all need to understand about where iam is that young mums do prefer there newborns and pawn there older on to anyone like what she does now if u all think that's ok then am not the bad one here ..... I've got dyslexia btw

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catnipkitty · 30/05/2014 21:19

My kids love being with their grandma. Surely you have better things to think about??

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