To not agree to DP giving up his job?

[sleepismyfriend]

I will try to be brief.

We have a 3 month old baby.

Prior to baby I was building up my business and worked until the day I have birth. Business is now booming and I am very lucky to have a good team behind me who take care of the day to day running of the business. I am at home with our baby and whilst I do have to put some work hours in, I can do it from home and DD is my absolute priority. I mainly work when she has settled down for the night.

DP and I don't live together but we are making a go of things and we do intend to live together within a year,

DP is employed and doesn't like his job. He wants to give it up and work for me. I am not keen on this as I would feel guilty if for any reason the business didn't work, and at least with an employed position he can guarantee how much he earns - my business is only 18 months old and so I don't feel completely secure about it yet.

DP is constantly saying how I'm doing to much, insinuates that I must be stressed all day having to juggle work an DD (I'm not) and that he wants to work for the business and basically take over in a managerial type role.

AIBU to not allow this? Apart from l the security / financial aspects of it, I have built my business up from scratch and don't want him coming along taking all the credit now that's its really taking off. Am I being selfish? I'm not sure if I will be going back full time to work there as I am very happy working from home and looking after DD - it doesn't mean he has to take over though does it?

If it makes any difference, he earns approx 30k PA in a 45 hour a week job. My business profits are approx 200k PA.

Some outside perspectives on this would be great.

it's threads like these that make me almost pity the dickheads our fellow dear MNers come up against.

ALMOST

FTW?

Clipboard - was that something to do with Mrs DeV's bungalow problem. And didn't it involve nice boots as well?

Yes, KFP it did. And a very smart suit too I think.

BTW, any reoccurrence of Mrs nasty car driver?

Never seen her again!

Although I did have the pleasure of another lunatic this morning. She tried to enter one of the narrow bits on the hill while I was coming out of it, and then tried to get me to reverse all the way back up again, so she didn't have to back up all of 3 feet.

I declined. She waved her arms, tried to squeeze through, and promptly stalled, couldn't do a hill start and rolled back into the hedge.

The bloke behind her was highly entertained.

I wasn't, of course. Me? Laughing? No, not me.....

I don't think the OP would need to worry about this man making accusations that she is mad - she's smart and articulate and it would be completely obvious that he is a deluded, predatory arse.

FTW = for the win. It's a compliment...

...one whose effectiveness is reduced if the recipient doesn't understand it, agreed!

I seriously thought FTW was What The Fuck done backwards!! Ha ha ha ha.

I assumed it wasn't an insult! I like to be optimistic about these things

But I had no idea what it might mean!

I wonder how this thread turned out...

No no no! "take over from what I'm doing" cheeky fucker! Does have any skills, experience or enthusiasm for the thing that your businesses does. Suggest he works for a competitor of he's interested then apply if a role comes up.... Honestly outraged at the nerve of him!