Ok so I posted earlier but I've now had to call the police...

[MeepMeepVrooom]

I posted earlier about my ExH taking pictures from my FB page and putting them on his, he tagged his girlfriend of 2 weeks in them etc etc...

I have just been to pick up my DD from nursery to be told than a woman fitting his new girlfriends description tried to collect DD from nursery. They called me but I was already on my way and told them I would deal with it, they refused to release my DD (obviously) and waited on me.

She was gone by the time i got there and have called 101 once I was home.

This bizarre behaviour seems to be escalating and I'm getting worried. I know where the woman is right now and tbh I'm trying my best to stay calm and not go to her and go through her like a ton of bricks.

Has anyone been in this position? I'm really struggling to sit tight right now.

Well done Meep. Hope you have a relaxing evening with your friend. Take care.

Defo enjoy vino :)

In the space of 24 hrs you've got so much done, I hope you can feel a bit safer and more secure with your dd.

It's good that you have a friend to look after you for the next few days. (Make the most of it - stay until Sunday like he suggested!).

You did the right thing re the PSO and harassment order . In English law they generally need a few incidents before granting them. Both that and your posts suggest a history of harassment from you ExH. What a shit.

Well done Meep. You are ensuring that this cannot happen again. Not that it should have happened in the first place, but at least you and DD are protected now.

I hope you are able to de-stress and enjoy the wine

Glad you and your dd are safe! Good luck with the next few steps, legal and otherwise. Think you have acted brilliantly!

Unwind and enjoy the wine & food

meep

As you know I rarely say stuff like this but I figured you deserved it

Well fucking done.im impressed with your coping skills.

And the best bit now you know you can do it court won't be so frightening anymore so that's one less thing he has to frighten you with.

You have handled yourself amazingly well throughout all this...

Enjoy your food and weekend with friends

Brilliant news, well done :)

How are things today Meep?

Im just saying absolutley well done.Im delighted you have someone you and your dd can rely on.Enjoy your and enjoy your takeaway.And even until Sunday just try and put it out of your mind.

We have been good. Still at my friends, going home tomorrow.

Have heard ExH and GF have been charged with the unrelated offences, have heard what they are but it's just come through the grapevine so not 100% sure, although I do believe it to be the truth.

Thanks again for all your support and advice. It really did help.

Glad it has all worked out for you meep

Glad you're ok MEEPS

I like the name meep/s

N/C

Not sure what to say about the charges whether that's good news for you or not but glad you are ok and able to return home. Glad you like the n/c

Hope the charges are so unrelated you don't feel unsafe. Glad you're doing ok too

Charges are unrelated to the incident this week but they do go in my favour of protecting my DD and myself to be honest.

It's sad that his life has gotten to this point and I left him when he started to downward spiral. It's a shame but also proves to me exactly why what I did was the right thing to do.

Blinking heck, what a situation.

I really hope you have no more trouble from them and it seems the nursery were very good.

How bloody scary Meep

Just read the whole thread! Good Luck Meep. What a rollercoaster!

Thank you. It was a rough couple of days but we're ok. We're better than ok really. My DD is safe and that is the most important thing to me.