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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To be extremely fucked off ?!?

230 replies

PistolAnnies · 12/02/2014 18:38

...with a fellow mum, and supposed 'friend' at the school?

Basically, my son is best friends with this boy (they're both in Yr1 & went through Reception / nursery together). The other boys mum is a young mum who I thought was quite mature for her age, lives with her mum and dad still - her mum does more with the boy than her though, typical loving nan I guess?

Anyway, we've known each other for a few years now - this family know the shit we've had to endure; financial issues, hubby's Stroke, other issues.

I posted a FB status status last week saying for anyone who was online, if they didn't like me then delete me ... Well, the nan deleted me! Hmmm, surprised as we've always been pals ?

Then the kids mum, posted a status about loving her new work colleagues etc, I commented saying that was great but not to be too open to them as I've had sufficient experience of being shit on by colleagues in the past - she got really pissed off with this so I removed my comments. I since saw a comment from her to somebody on her FB calling me a 'bloody crank'?!

I took this girl's son on an expensive day trip out last Summer, bought him lunch, toys etc Confused This girl calls me a crank yet has just announced she's preggo again with her 'friends' baby this time ?!?

Just to add this girl also claims fraudelent benefits, which pisses me right off...

Would you be alnnoyed? Would you pull her at school or just ignore them from now on??

I feel really upset and disappointed to have let my guard down and opened my heart again to people who I believed to be decent people, friends Hmm

OP posts:
hickorychicken · 12/02/2014 18:54

YANBU to go on fb spouting shit like that, you sound very immature yourself!
What has her new pregnancy and benefits got to do with you
judgey mare!!

PortofinoRevisited · 12/02/2014 18:54

Maybe her new work colleagues are amongst her FB friends? I don't do this, but I know others do. You would have come across as a bit of a loon probably. And agree the other post was attention seeking.

hickorychicken · 12/02/2014 18:54

I meant YABU grrrr.

YouStayClassySanDiego · 12/02/2014 18:57

I doubt this poster will be back.

Just a feeling I'm getting.

Do people ever engage the brain before pressing post message and think' I sound like a right twat, I'll delete this'.

Daykin · 12/02/2014 18:58

I would have deleted you too. Sorry. I would have thought you were a crank for pissing on my chips too, although I might not have said it. She might have her new colleagues on FB now so will be embarrassed that someone is publicly saying she shouldn't like them. It's very socially awkward.

Mishmashfamily · 12/02/2014 18:58
Grin
ToffeeOwnsTheSausage · 12/02/2014 18:58

You okay OP? Seems a rather strange thing to post and then to be upset when someone does as you ask...

MrsDeVere · 12/02/2014 18:58

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

HectorVector · 12/02/2014 18:59

I want to delete you and I'm not even your friend. What a strange thing to post in Facebook ad then get offended by it when people do as you suggest?

SummersDumbAsPie · 12/02/2014 19:00

Someone on facebook deleted you because they didn't like you after you asked people to and you're surprised? I'd delete you too, you sound awful

Stinklebell · 12/02/2014 19:00

I posted a FB status status last week saying for anyone who was online, if they didn't like me then delete me

In all honesty, I delete friends for posting shit like that too.

AnandaTimeIn · 12/02/2014 19:00

I'm with Casmama on this.

You know, just because your child has friends does not mean you always need to be BFF with their parents....

And if you do become friends, no need to get so involved in their life. They will not thank you for it (as you have noticed).

I think the saying "Get a life" is appropriate here.

mum2jakie · 12/02/2014 19:01

Are you 12???

chestnutmare · 12/02/2014 19:02

Yep, YABU, for sure. HTH.

mercibucket · 12/02/2014 19:03

maybe aibu is not the best place to post this if you are already feeling down
a step back from social media might be helpful

superstarheartbreaker · 12/02/2014 19:03

This thread has made me laugh out loud...hilarious!
Yanbu op.

superstarheartbreaker · 12/02/2014 19:03

Yabu I mean!

Salmotrutta · 12/02/2014 19:07

It's all there isn't it?

Right down to the benefits bit...

StopSquabbling · 12/02/2014 19:11

Who on earth invites people on FB to delete them if they don't like them? They could probably manage that without an invitation.

And the colleagues comment was just mean spirited - I'm not surprised she reacted.

All in all, very puerile. Or a wind up.

YouStayClassySanDiego · 12/02/2014 19:14

This poster has posted some odd posts in the past.

Just saying Wink

SilverShins · 12/02/2014 19:16
Confused
scarletforya · 12/02/2014 19:21

You put your hand out too be slapped there Op.

What did you expect?

GoldenHares · 12/02/2014 19:21

Erm.
YABU

Lj8893 · 12/02/2014 19:24

Umm yep I'm with everyone else on this one!!

hickorychicken · 12/02/2014 19:24

Fucking hell its only Wednesday!! Grin