To ask my boyfriend to move in with me after six weeks!

[mrscoleridge]

Hi

I have posted about my lovely boyfriend before. It was love at first sight and we more or less spent every day/night together since we met,
I am completely in love with him and want to ask him to move in, I have two kids 17 and 15 who like him a lot too. In fact he spent last weekend decorating the youngest ones bedroom!
I know it's far too quick really but it feels right. He gets on with all my family and friends too and makes a big effort to talk to them.

Please be gentle

[Twotailed]

Oops sorry, you’re 4 months not 6 weeks! But I still think it’s too soon. I am sympathetic because I know exactly how you feel but you really need to give it time.

[AamdC]

I have no room tontalk really Kirstya as i married dh after just six months and we are still together over 13 years later but i didnt have kids, i would be more cautious with kids especiallt young ones.

[sahknowme]

Have you even farted in the presence of him?!

[Abandonedabroad]

This is a four year old zombie thread. I wonder if the OP is still with her boyfriend?

[SheCameFromGreeceSheHadaThirst]

THIS THREAD IS ALMOST FIVE YEARS OLD.

OP could have moved 43 different blokes in since she started the thread

[user1471517900]

House would be getting a bit cramped surely if that was the case

[possumgoddess]

I think it is too soon UNLESS you are absolutely sure you know everything you need to know about him, his family, his finances, debts, friends, habits, likes, dislikes etc. That said my DH moved in with me after 4 months due to a sudden change in his circumstances making him homeless, but I did already know his personal and financial circumstances and we sorted out some very strong ground rules before he did move in. I knew his previous financial history hadn't been great, so we agreed that he would pay me housekeeping money (sorted out by both of us) at the beginning of every month and he has always done that (bless him) even now we have been together for 12 years and are married.

[Kirstya1985]

Ive met all my boyfriend's family I know pretty much everything about him we talked for a couple months before we actually got together I know what debts he has and everything he knows all about me and yes I've farted in front of him even taken a shit in his toilet 😂😂 we've been so comfortable around each other since day one it's like we've known each other years he's truly and amazing person we have pretty much everything in common his birthday is even the day before mine in July my kids adore him and he's fantastic with my boys I'm moving near him in a few months and I've been thinking about asking him to move in with me when I move I just don't know how to ask him

[Tallace]

Ive just done an AS.

Turns out the OPs boyfriend was on the Sex offenders Register!!!

She found this out a few weeks after this thread!

[irunlikeahipoo]

So your downsizing
You own and he rents
Is he going to be on mortgage as your looking at al place together
If so you are fucking crazy to think of putting someone you have know. For 6 weeks on the deeds to your house , joint mortgage
You might as well just hand him a cheque for xxxx amount and be done with it
But if he isn’t going on your mortgage / deeds then why not
I met my DH in a nightclub and he came home with me that night and we have been married for 20 years 😂

[SheCameFromGreeceSheHadaThirst]

Ive just done an AS

Turns out the OPs boyfriend was on the Sex offenders Register!!!

She found this out a few weeks after this thread!

So presumably the OP was a massive troll and her 'oh, you sillies, with your hysteria about grooming' was just part of the elaborate whipping up of drama.

[Dieu]

Absolute madness, and poor parenting to boot. I can't imagine introducing my (older) kids to someone after only 6 weeks, let alone have him move in!
Sorry OP, and I do hope it all works out for you. It's just insanely early for this.

[SheCameFromGreeceSheHadaThirst]

Sorry OP, and I do hope it all works out for you. It's just insanely early for this.

You might want to read the thread a little more closely ~ and clock the date on it

[Kirstya1985]

No I'm renting and also I've not known him 6 weeks this isn't my thread I just came on it today for advice I do t think u read my first comment, we have been together 4 months and known each other 6 months if that helps

[Ninabean17]

I moved in with my now dh after 2 months. Next year is our 10th anniversary, married for half of that and now have 2 beautiful girls. It's not for everyone, only You will know if it's the right thing to do.

[Kirstya1985]

I've never asked anyone to move in with me before I really want to ask him but I think I'm worried of scaring him off although I don't think it will I think he would be happy to move in with me but I'm the type of person that worries so I'm worries of loosing my soulmate

[Blackness78]

I think when you know you know

Then no need to ask strangers.

[RadishesAndLentils]

Hi Kirstya1985.

You should start a new thread with your issue

Otherwise people will keep replying to the original post.

[Justanotheruser01]

I went round to my husband's house on our first date and pretty much never went home

[Justanotheruser01]

Fuck I didn't notice now long this thread was ignore my last comment please