To ask how many of you have a 'natural' lady garden?

[ineedsomeinspiration]

I used to sport the landing strip up until I was about 6 months pregnant with ds who is now 2. I stopped shaving as I couldn't see what I was doing, also might sound daft but kind of wanted it to be the way nature intended to give birth.
Since then I haven't shaved, waxed, trimmed etc. I'm not massively hairy so it's not a full on 80s style bush.
DP moaned the other day as he liked it the way I used to have it. . I sort of told him tough luck it's my bits and quite frankly I cba and like not having itchy stubble. He watched our Baby come out of there fgs surely he realises it's not a fashion accessory?
AIBU to not make the effort for dp?

Each to his own. My wife has never shaved her garden and never really trims either. It it had been any other way, I wouldn't have got with her.

I have a natural pubic hair growth, yes.

Occasionally I tidy mine a little but generally I just let it grow how it wants. I can’t say it’s had any negative impact on anything.

Au naturel here. Lives too short to worry about things like this. I have never really understood the need to shave everything for a man. Does a man ever do it for you?

Why is it called a garden? I'd be seriously concerned if anything was growing there! (Apart from pubic hair. ..)

I prefer to shave. Boyfriend has never indicated that he cares either way.

Yup. I never felt the need to do anything else. Literally no one who has got to the point of seeing me with no knickers on declined to have sex on the basis of my having things natural.

I am hair free, I prefer it that way and have been the same since I was a teen in the early 90s. What others do is obviously up to them

@mbosnz

Why is it called a garden? I'd be seriously concerned if anything was growing there! (Apart from pubic hair. ..)

Ok.. let's call it a bush or pubic hair lol. Might as well keep the talk real.

@BarbedBloom

I am hair free, I prefer it that way and have been the same since I was a teen in the early 90s. What others do is obviously up to them

There is nothing wrong with your choice either because it is all a personal choice. Things change when you are in a committed relationship like marriage or otherwise. People just have to decide what they are willing to live with around the area of intimacy. Ultimately, no one can force anyone to groom or look a certain way. Men tend to be more visual so that is something to be worked out between a couple.

🙋‍♀️ me!

@Toomboom

Clean as a whistle here, and I do it purely for myself as I much prefer it. No man on the scene.

Why on earth has someone been searching for pubic hair threads from 2014

During lockdown it’s a bloody forest there.
But normally i veet my bikini line every week: and give my pubes a wee trim. Only because I love swimming!

DH doesn’t care either way

6 and half years!!! Wtf people.

Mines a 70's afro life's too short for pubes angst

I'd like to not have hair. I normally cut it really short, as short as it can be with scissors. I really don't want to go to a salon, and when I shaved it it was great the first time, but a couple of days later when I did it again I had all these bleeding bumps! That was after a long hot shower, so I'm not sure why that happened. I've been nervous of the razor since. What do other people do if they don't go to a salon?

@xzhrfb

Each to his own. My wife has never shaved her garden and never really trims either. It it had been any other way, I wouldn't have got with her.

Nice bit of search/bumping there. I didn't notice the date until @AtYourCervix popped up.

Mine is like Chewbacca at the moment but not out of choice! No salons open and if I shave it ends up with a huge rash. It's awful!

@Midsommar and me!

@ineedsomeinspiration

Can I ask how old you are? I'm 32 and I have noticed it seems to be almost unacceptable amongst some of my younger work colleagues to not be styled.

I work in a different environment where we don’t really check each other’s lady gardens 🤔🤔🤔

It’s more hygienic to have it trimmed. I cannot imagine leaving it ala natural...

I have thick, dark pubes. Luckily not down my thighs, but definitely between my legs.

I lasered the edges a long time ago and it’s lasted well. It’s a neat triangle in front. I trim and then it’s neat. Sometimes I shave my bum hole and between my legs (tops of thighs). Mostly to keep hairs inside bikini bottoms and my bum- well I think it’s easier to wash and wipe clean hair free. Unfortunately I have a fair amount of bum hair too.

Now you all know far too much about me

Zombie 🧟‍♂️ thread! And a strange one to resurrect to talk about ones wife.....

Totally hairless; totally sex-related.

Show him this and threaten to do the same if he doesn't stop with the whinging.