AIMU to expect FIL to put a top on during visits. I realise its his home and people can generally do what they like within their own 4 walls.
However I just find I am being increasingly struck dumb and I am unable to meet his gaze or even look at him. He is rather generously proportioned and sits at the head of the table like some buddha.
I have a sense he knows my feelings about this and knows how uncomfortable it makes me feel as several years ago there was a conversation about being half dressed in different situations - eg ... walking down street, in own home, in garden, on beach etc. This was before he took to being half undressed when at home.
DH has no problem with it although he does not do this himself. He also does not feel comfortable broaching the subject with his father.
Perhaps I am turning into a prude in my old age and just need to chillax.