best friend had sex when looking after my dts

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I know nothing came of this, but I'm not sure how I feel about it.

Whilst my best friend and her husband were looking after my dts last weekend, he spent 3 hours doing the ironing (a novelty for him believe me!!). His 'payment' for this was a 'quick shag'. His excuse - he was feeling horny.

So basically, whilst the dts and their daughter of the same age (5yrs) were outside playing on the trampoline in the garden, they had a quickie. She tells me it lasted a matter of minutes but the principle is the same - surely?

She is still my best friend and I love her to bits but feel slightly weird about this scenario. Should I?

Yes

Bit over sharey of her too!

YANBU. Why did she tell you though??

So you never have sex when your children are in the house? Okay, maybe they are asleep, but children wake up.

No. You shouldn't.

No!

Haven't you ever done it yourself?

I wouldn't be comfortable knowing they were shagging when in charge of my children.

A

5 year olds, not babies - and in her house, not yours?

What exactly is the problem? Weird of her to tell you though.

As long as they weren't selling tickets or cheering them on to orgasm it's fine.

They were outside ffs

They were out on the trampoline, provided they were out of sight and still able to react quickly if needed it wouldn't bother me.

so three 5 yos unsupervised out on the trampoline - no they should not have been having a quickie, they should have been within sight and earshot

Regardless of what she was doing ( why did she feel the need to tell you?) I assume , at age 5, you would leave them happily playing upstairs/outside etc?

So what's the problem? I assume they shut the door ..

I wouldn't have a massive issue with this but if I had been me having the quicky I don't think I would have mentioned it.

What FrillyMummy said. Why on earth did she tell you that^ ?

So the DC were all OK and saw nothing?

And it probably took less time than, say, checking the tyre pressures and pumping up as required, or a myriad other domestic chores.

I think I'm

WTF?????

oh hell no!

Sorry I'm gonna go out on a limb and say I'd find this totally unacceptable.

Nought to stop a married couple having their quickie after I'd collected my kidlets.

Steps back and waits for the abuse to start lol!

I wouldn't like this. And where did they do it? Hope they wiped down the surface after

It's weird that she felt the need to tell you. But other than that, no

well some quickies i have had have taken less time than making a cup of tea

i am not sure why she told you but can not see the problem

We are best friends and tell each other everything so that's not unusual really. We had a laugh about it all.

I suppose I should be grateful he 'comes' quickly!!

YANBU in that they should have been supervised on the trampoline but otherwise, YABU for feeling weird about the sex in general.

Bizarre that they told you. I now have the image of her bent over the sink (so they can still keep an eye on the kids through the window.....)

boc why a 'married' couple? Any couple surely ,no?

Op.... Trampolines can be dangerous. Unsupervised 5 year olds? No I wouldn't be happy

Lol at NottaLotta.

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At least they didn't shag on the trampoline.

She told me about it because the issue really was the 'payment for ironing' thing. She always tells me when he is being a chauvenistic idiot!!

I don't feel weird about 'sex in general' at all, just the fact that they were responsible for my dts.