To spend a bit less than half our annual salary on our wedding? Any regrets if you have done the same?

[Buttonholes]

We have this money in savings but are we spending too much? I keep thinking about the other things this money coud go towards. We are paying for our own wedding by the way, no help from parents.

OH is fine with it. I can't sleep from worry though :(

It's not only about the money but also managing expectations. If we spend all this money and it's not absolutely bloody wonderful I will feel gutted.

Just have the wedding cake cut and served late
,.woth coffee for those that want it.

And just do free drinks while.dinenr is being served.

RTT people - it was started in early August and OP said the wedding was in 4 weeks so she must be married by now . I would love to hear an update on how it all went.