My DP is very hairy. He leaves poo crumbs and hair on the seat every day and I'm sick of wiping it. This is way worse than the seat-up-or-down debate. I finally snapped after a year and told him he must start using wet wipes to avoid the poo crumb issue. I feel like I'm looking after a 2 year old in this regard.
It's been particularly bad in bed this summer as he sleeps naked so the crumbs go EVERYWHERE.
He says I have no right to interfere in his toilet routine and I say I'm not sexing someone who can't keep their poo crumbs under control.
His family are full of boys and he says the poo crumbs thing is normal and that I'm overreacting. AIBU?