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for flouting hospital 'no sibling' rule for ebf baby?

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StarlightMcKenzie · 05/02/2013 14:57

DS had an operation yesterday. He needed me to be there. Breastfed baby also needed me.

I took my Aunt to look after my ds and we were sent initially to a waiting room. The plan was for her to keep him there and for me to pop out of the ward to feed him.

However, we were there for half an hour and my ds started to ask for a feed, so I started to bf. Literally 2 sucks in, we were called. I pulled him off and he screamed so I jigged him about (which quietens him as a distraction) and moved towards the ward with him in tow.

The nurse told me he wasn't allowed. I told her that I needed to finish his feed and then I would take him back to my aunt. I offered to vrubg ds ub 10 mins but she got arsey saying that ds would have to have his operation cancelled if he missed his slpt. Nurse started tutting about him disturbing the other patients and that there was a strict no-sibling rule that I knew about as it was in the letter (it was).

so WIBU?

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idshagphilspencer · 06/02/2013 20:17

Elph you are so kind

LadyBeagleEyes · 06/02/2013 20:18

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TantrumsAndBalloons · 06/02/2013 20:20

I didn't think MNHQ deleted entire posting history just because a poster changed her mind?

idshagphilspencer · 06/02/2013 20:21

My thoughts Tantrums

WipsGlitter · 06/02/2013 20:22

So you can get all your past posts withdrawn? Really?

crashdoll · 06/02/2013 20:23

OP didn't want everyone to agree with her, she wanted a bun fight and got one.

idshagphilspencer · 06/02/2013 20:24

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nipersvest · 06/02/2013 20:25

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lyndie · 06/02/2013 20:25

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LadyBeagleEyes · 06/02/2013 20:25

It's all very odd.

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crashdoll · 06/02/2013 20:28

It feels very goady. It wasn't even defensive, just aggressive and trying to provoke.

idshagphilspencer · 06/02/2013 20:28

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ElphabaTheGreen · 06/02/2013 20:28

Why Wips? Wot you said, then, eh?

But seriously, wouldn't a NC just have been easier? Especially for poor old HelenMumsnet having to drag herself out from under David to do all that deleting?

idshagphilspencer · 06/02/2013 20:29

Quite crash

DoctorAnge · 06/02/2013 20:29

Her posts always have the same kind of theme to them it's true. Angry at the healthcare professionals.

idshagphilspencer · 06/02/2013 20:29

Elphaba I just snorted my wine everywhere Grin

LadyBeagleEyes · 06/02/2013 20:33

So can we all do that then?
I mean getting all past posts withdrawn?
Because I've made some very painful grammar and spelling mistakes in the past which I was unable to edit.
I've also posted when I've been pissed, and looked the next day and thought Blush
Please MN, can you make them all disappear?

MrsDeVere · 06/02/2013 20:41

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idshagphilspencer · 06/02/2013 20:42

try doing an advanced search

LadyBeagleEyes · 06/02/2013 20:44

I did advanced search MrsDeVere.
Where are you still seeing the posts?