to not want to kiss my DC full on the lips?

[lovelyladuree]

I have noticed this mother at the school before, kissing her DS(8) full on the lips, half a dozen times, with wet sloppy kisses outside the classroom door. This morning she was directly in front of me and it was 'mmmmm......mmmmmm......mmmmm.......mmmmmmm....etc' in our faces. I kiss my DS wherever I can aim and catch him (head,cheek,anorak). Am I being weird? When I was at home, wet sloppy kisses on the lips were for people you were married to/in a partnership with. Or AIBU?

[alienreflux]

ba ha ha yolo!!

[catgirl1976]

If you have sucked the trouser snake
Then DCs hands you now must shake
You must not kiss, you must not snog
If you've been licking daddys nob

[Bluefrogs]

I have just had a lovely lipkissing,tummy raspberry blowing,peachy bum tapping kind of group bundle with my toddler twins.

[DesperatelySeekingPomBears]

catgirl

I give DS big lip smackers all the time and dread the day he won't let me. His dad also kisses him on the lips. Hell, I even blow raspberries and kiss him on his pudgy little bum. YANBU if its just something you wouldn't do yourself. YABVU if you think everyone should share your hang ups and bizarre reasons for them.

[BarredfromhavingStella]

WTAF????? How have you gone from giving your DH a BJ to kissing your kids on the lips Is there not a reasonable gap, a teeth clean & a mouthwash between-if not you are one dirty bitch, & not in the good way.

OP you have issues & what the fuck has it got to do with you how she kisses her child?

[catgirl1976]

I love pudgy little bums.

I bite DS's. And his squeezy little thighs

[YoloOrTwice]

Little jonny wide eyed and meek,
Questioned why kisses where for the cheek,
He asked his mummy that fateful day,
Do you know what she did say?

Little jonny don't despair,
Daddy's snake just needed care,
This mornIng was such a rush,
I'm ashamed I forgot to brush,

So give me your cheek you see,
Let's keep this story between you and me

[catgirl1976]

ha ha ha yolo :)

[badtime]

I think it sounds like the OP may have some sort of OCD. It's not just about washing or rituals. The main thing that defines OCD is the 'intrusive thoughts', where the sufferer can't help thinking about inappropriate or unpleasant things. This might explain the jump from child-kissing to cock-sucking. If this is the case, OP could probably do with a bit of CBT or something.

[Minty82]

I've actually only ever known one family who kissed each other on the lips - 15 years ago and still remember it because it was so alien to me - so not at all surprised by one previous poster who said she hadn't realised anyone did it. It's not 'projecting' anything to see kisses on the lips as something reserved for partners - my parents were extremely demonstrative with us, as I am with my daughter, but that's just never been part of it. Calling them 'movie kisses' sums it up for me - it's how my parents kiss each other/lovers kiss in films - just not on the parent/child radar in my experience. Clearly it's normal for lots of people, but it's quite normal to be a bit startled by it if you didn't know anyone did it.

[AngryBeaver]

Oh, I LOVE kissing my kids!I kiss them all over,I even nibble their bum bum's to make them squeal. And you would pass out if you saw my youngest ds,he is 2. Since I gave up bf, he has latched onto my lower lip. He sucks it and sucks it and then falls asleep, but just before he falls asleep he detaches and sticks his index finger in my mouth
My ds1 has massive lips and loves giving great big wet kisses...and I love getting them. Dd gives little dry kisses, but always on the lips.
I love kisses with my babies.
And also second tthe brushing teeth and washing face after blow jobs...also lysterine,if you so wish!

[DesperatelySeekingPomBears]

I am wondering though, and genuinely would like an answer. If anyone on this thread that views kisses on the lips as "sexual" actually has sex with their DP every time they kiss?

I kissed DP this morning when we woke up and again as he left for work and neither time did he drop trou. Do these people never share kisses purely as a greeting/sign of affection or does it always lead to sex for them?

[StaceymReadyForNumber3]

YANBU to not like to do it yourself.

YABU to be bothered about what other people do.

And yabvvvu to jump from kissing your children to giving your husband a blow job?!

I kiss my children on the lips. I do not snog them the same way I snog DH. We don't slobber on each other ( they are 7+5) but we do peck on the lips. It's completely natural for me. If you think differently then fine but don't judge me!

[BellaTata]

I'm a nanny and I kiss the children I look after on the cheeks, unless they move my face for a peck on the lips or if I've looked after them for a long time or if I'm very close to them. With my nephews aged 3 and 7 I kiss on the lips, it's started to be a game with the older one where I will have to chase him for a goodbye kiss then I'll squeeze his cheeks together and give him a smooch on the lips. He thinks it's funny. I can't wait to have my own children so I can shower them with kisses.

If they're you're children I don't see the proplem with kisses on the lips. The same for family and close friends. I would prefere it if smokers didn't kiss my children on the lips, buts that's my opinion and some people may see nothing wrong with that. I don't ever feel guilty about what other things I use my mouth for as I have good oral hygiene and brush, wash, floss frequently.

[Everythingsgoingtitsup]

There once was a lady from Crick
Who busily sucked DHs dick
But she didn't use dettol
Or boil it in a kettle
So now her ds is sick

[NorthWhittering]

One of my most lovely parenting moments was when attempting to wrestle 2yo DS down for a nap, he suddenly gave me the most loving look and then leaned in for a kiss on the lips, completely unprompted.

I had no idea so many people thought it was odd. It?s just normal surely?

When he was younger he used to lean in and give a lick rather than a kiss!

[anonacfr]

AF my DD calls them 'true love kiss'. She's clearly been Disney brainwashed.

[DeepPurple]

Didn't we have this same question a few weeks ago? It started out with the op saying that she thought kissing children on the mouth was wrong then after many balanced replies said it was wrong as you might have given your dp a blow job the night before.

Either it's the same or I suddenly have psychic powers.

I kiss my dd on the lips. I don't think it's strange or wrong.

I have a friend who doesn't as she regularly gets cold sores and doesn't want to risk passing the virus on to her dcs. This is a valid reason.

Each to their own. I don't think about any prior sexual antics when kissing and cuddling my dd.

[Hullygully]

PERVERSION PERVERSION

IMPS OF SATAN ARE EVERYWHERE

SODOM AND GOMORRAH IS BREAKING OUT IN THE PLAYGROUND

[Minty82]

Desperately - no of course kisses with DH don't always lead to sex. otherwise we'd never have time for anything else!! They're regularly just a greeting/sign of affection, but in a form I wouldn't use with anyone else.

[itwasallyellow]

YABU seriously unreasonable to mention giving your DH a blow job and kissing your kids on the lips. For goodness sake I'm assuming that you touch your DH penis aswell, does that mean you can't touch your kids faces either?

You sound like a wierdo to be honest.

And as for 'snogging' I don't shove my tongue in ds mouth when I kiss him on the lips but I do love to give him big kisses, sometimes on the lips or sometimes on the cheek. Funnily enough ds grabs my face and kisses me on the lips and says love you mummy.

[ItsAllGoingToBeFine]

It's kind of the same as the whole BF debate - BF is weird because breast are for sex.

Surely the intent is more important than the body part?

[itwasallyellow]

And ye, considering your kids were made out of a bit of sperm and and egg, and quite probably came out of your vagina, I really wouldn't worry.

[ilovetermtime]

badtime I was thinking OCD too, probably because it's the only explanantion I can think of and if it's not OCD then the OP is very strange (IMO).

If kissing kids on the lips freaks you out... Look away now. My DS likes to try and stick his tongue in my mouth when I kiss him! It started after he did it once and I reacted by pulling away and now he sees it as a game. I'll admit this is gross but I'm certainly not going to stop kissing him because of it.

[scentednappyhag]

I honestly don't get it... So what happens if you give oral sex and then kiss a child in the lips? Do they turn into a penis?
Is that why I know so many knobs?