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to not want to kiss my DC full on the lips?

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lovelyladuree · 08/10/2012 19:45

I have noticed this mother at the school before, kissing her DS(8) full on the lips, half a dozen times, with wet sloppy kisses outside the classroom door. This morning she was directly in front of me and it was 'mmmmm......mmmmmm......mmmmm.......mmmmmmm....etc' in our faces. I kiss my DS wherever I can aim and catch him (head,cheek,anorak). Am I being weird? When I was at home, wet sloppy kisses on the lips were for people you were married to/in a partnership with. Or AIBU?

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UserNameNotAvailable · 08/10/2012 20:00

You do realise that, if your kids came out the natural way they've actually had your fanjo round their head?

I assume you've had a wash and brushed your teeth before you kissed them and it wasn't straight after the event? If so, I can't see a problem.

MrsDeVere · 08/10/2012 20:01

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crashdoll · 08/10/2012 20:01

Slobbery snogging implies shoving your tongue down someone's throat. A kiss on the lips is nice and loving. Affection is ok!

hiddenhome · 08/10/2012 20:01
Hmm
2teens2tots · 08/10/2012 20:01

perhaps she doesn't have oral sex with her husband....

Gunznroses · 08/10/2012 20:02

Just because you have a sick mind dont project it onto someone else, maybe this woman wasnt sucking dick the night before, think about that ? Hmm

TheDetective · 08/10/2012 20:02

I don't like it, but never passed judgement on others doing it? I hate spit/breath, so don't really like kissing anyway! We do snuggles and cheek kisses!

I don't think its weird though, although at 8, he may be a little embarrassed at school!

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 08/10/2012 20:02

Don't you have a wash in between? Ewww at you!

catgirl1976 · 08/10/2012 20:03

OP I think that might be the worst post I have ever seen on MN

And that's some going. Have a congratulatory Biscuit and book yourself some therapy sessions. You clearly need them

hiddenhome · 08/10/2012 20:03

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FrankensteinWippery · 08/10/2012 20:03

What MrsDV said.

catgirl1976 · 08/10/2012 20:04

It's a nest of vipers acutally hiddenhome.

And the OP deserves the comments she is getting after that post.

bbface · 08/10/2012 20:04

Leave her alone. I can imagine you watching the scene with a sneer on your face.

My poor ds (2.2) is utterly bamboozled with kisses from morning until night, and whilst I will adapt as he grows older, my ds will still be experiencing my tsunami of kisses and cuddles when he is 8 yrs old, and who knows.... Some of them may well be full on the lips!

Bumdrop · 08/10/2012 20:04

Op ...
U are truly weirdo
Thinking about giving your husband blow job whilst watching mummy kiss son bye bye at the school gate ....
What ????

OliviaLMumsnet · 08/10/2012 20:04

@MrsDeVere

< doesn't care>

Shock
hiddenhome · 08/10/2012 20:05

Wow, you can tell it's Monday Sad

Inneedofbrandy · 08/10/2012 20:06

ovelyladuree I said something like that a while a go on a diff thread and got completely flamed. I agree with you and no brushing your teeth does not in my opinion help at all.

Napdamnyou · 08/10/2012 20:07

You are highly unreasonable and need to pull yourself together.

scarletforya · 08/10/2012 20:07

FFS, some downright nasty posts on here. If OP did have 'issues' or 'need therapy' is that an excuse to kick her and bully her?

I wouldn't kiss my child on the lips because I think lip kisses are for lovers. That doesn't mean I have issues. Just different boundaries from some people.

FrustratedSycamorePants · 08/10/2012 20:07

OP you last post was just plain gross wrong. have you considered where these DCs have come from and how they were made.?

What has oral sex got to do with kissing children on the lips? Why would anyone think that when kissing their children to show they love them?

bbface · 08/10/2012 20:07

Oh I have just read your second comment. Obscene. Nasty and obscene. And to think youbrings mother makes me shudder.

tara0202 · 08/10/2012 20:07

What a weird way to think about kissing your kids OP.

I'm really Shock at the people who think kissing their kids on the lips is weird or "yuk" or who refer to it as "snogging" Confused and Hmm

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 08/10/2012 20:07

Slobbery snoggers hiddenhome? Hmm yes, because that's what people are who kiss their kids on the lips. Thanks for that. Your lips are only for your partner? What else is exclusive inly to him that normal people share with family? Hugs, affection, love? god forbid we show those to the lived ones around us. Aren't we sickos...Envy

Chubfuddler · 08/10/2012 20:07

A HV. Once told me children instinctively kiss on the lips, because kissing was actually "invented" by mothers passing masticated food to the mouths of their infants.

I don't know about you, but since the last time I was sick/drank wine/went down on my husband/ate a curry I've washed and brushed my teeth.

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