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All the disparaging references to Daily Mail

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Abitwobblynow · 01/10/2012 10:20

Does it not occur to you right-on caring sort, that the Daily Mail is the largest-selling newspaper in this country?

In other words, DM could reflect the views of the silent majority.

And your caring sharing good intentions could be an imposition, not an ideal or a truth.

So who are you with your sneering?

Finally: what is so heinous about a view point that gives importance to the concept of personal responsibility, and the values of the country?

OP posts:
Lueji · 03/10/2012 14:28

And what are DM's values?

Hmm
mertin · 03/10/2012 14:31

We don't like the Mail because it's crap.

I'd agree with that one but I do like to have a look now and again so that I can have a good laugh. I mean how can you not sneer about an article like "two people go to a party without wearing a bra". "KJ looks older than her years because she's wearing leather trousers". It's hilarious.

Most of the comments following the articles are usually of the "who cares" variety. There are rarely any saying "well researched article".

Lueji · 03/10/2012 14:33

Indeed, Mertin and it can be addictive. Blush

But I'd never come to its defence.

sixlostmonkeys · 03/10/2012 14:35

In other words, DM could reflect the views of the silent majority.

mommybunny · 03/10/2012 15:14

sixlostmonkeys, Amen. The DM doesn't have a viewpoint, except to sh-t-stir. One day they're screaming in a front-page headline that this country is going to the dogs because schools are requiring kids to wear goggles to play conkers. The next month the front page is taken up with a huge picture of a tearful family whose 6 year-old "cheeky lad" lost an eye playing conkers (without goggles, of course).

The whole point of the DM is "you can't win, so don't even try, we're all doomed". I now dread being with DH's uncle, because every single topic of conversation out of his mouth comes from some stupid headline he read "in the paper" (when we all know he only reads one). I hate it when FIL (and my now-late MIL) rant about immigrants because of "figures" they get from "the paper" and when I ask them to stop because I am one myself they think they are reassuring me by saying "oh, but you're the right kind of immigrant" (meaning I am white, English-speaking and well-educated).

I get just as exasperated with the Guardian and the Telegraph, in their own ways. To my mind, the only newspaper with columnists that ever write any sense is the Times. But I haven't seen anyone mention that publication, so is that taboo?

Lueji · 03/10/2012 15:20

Personally, and not sure why or how, I got used to reading the online Telegraph (here for The Times), but I find it amusing to argue with bigoted idiots who comment on some articles.
Interestingly, most comments put down the columnists.
It can be as much fun as the DM, without the gossip. And if it is about gossip, half are about why the Telegraph is reporting gossip.

The Times readers probably don't populate parenting message boards, who knows?

MrsY · 05/10/2012 10:16

That, ivy is a jeffing amazing article!

mommybunny, maybe The Times isn't referenced so much as you have to pay to access it online?

mommybunny · 05/10/2012 13:01

The comments in the article (GREAT LINK, ivykaty!) had a link to a site called MailWatch, but when I clicked it the site said it had moved to a different server but didn't direct me there. Does anyone know if there is a new MailWatch?

MrsY, you may be right about why the Times isn't often mentioned. The paywall is worth it to me though.

EdMcDunnough · 05/10/2012 13:11

I've just seen this thread and not read any further than the first post.

'In other words, DM could reflect the views of the silent majority.

And your caring sharing good intentions could be an imposition, not an ideal or a truth.'

Those thingsaren't mutually exclusive. It is possible to be in a minority and still be RIGHT.

The mail is bollocks. I stand by that.

EdMcDunnough · 05/10/2012 13:13

And as an aside, OP - I've seen you posting for ages and always assumed you were a normal person.

This thread has made me think you're in fact really odd and a bit unpleasant.

Sorry about that.

birdsnotbees · 05/10/2012 13:14

YANBU. As a work of fiction it is a marvellous thing indeed.

EdMcDunnough · 05/10/2012 13:19

Anyway what are the values of the country?

Sorry but your OP is bollocks too.

I only buy the Guardian for the killer sudoku, I don't usually read much of the actual copy. But at least it has a more honest ethos than the DM or even the Times.

Does anyone know where you can get books of really hard sudokus that will take me a week to finish? Might save me a bit of money.

Lueji · 05/10/2012 13:29

The telegraph also has two killer cartoonists. :o

Very interesting article, BTW.
It's similar to what produced the MMR scare.
I really hate this type tripe of journalism.

tittytittyhanghang · 05/10/2012 13:43

YANBU, i read the dm and happy to do so. Doesn't mean that i agree with all they write. I admit that i usually put up a dm link warning in my threads, but its not for me, im more than happy to admit reading the dm, its for all the whinging minnies who are guaranteed to complain if they click on a dm link without being forewarned :)

badtime · 05/10/2012 14:03

The vast majority of people in this country do not buy the Daily Mail. Selling more that other papers is irrelevant - there are many papers.

Furthermore, the sort of people who agree with the Mail (not necessarily the people who read it - where would we all be without stories regarding American celebrities we've only heard of because of the Mail Online?) are not the sort to stay 'silent'.

And as many people have noted up thread, the majority is not always correct, a fact that has been well-known for thousands of years.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ochlocracy

Abitwobblynow · 05/10/2012 19:38

But at least it has a more honest ethos than the DM or even the Times. - who says?

What constitutes 'an honest ethos'?

Good question about: what are British values. What do you think they are?

OP posts:
Lueji · 05/10/2012 20:18

I think you should be the one to answer what are the values of the country, as you have stated in your OP that you think the DM gives importance to them.

And how the DM shows that it does give importance to them.

SeveredEdMcDunnough · 06/10/2012 08:02

An honest ethos imo is one without the elements of emotional manipulation that the mail employs.

And yes I'll throw the 'values' question straight back at you as you need to clarify what you meant by that term. I didn't use it, you did.

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