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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To leave an 11 and 13 year old home alone over night?

280 replies

MrsKLemon · 07/09/2012 14:03

I have a huge dilema. I have an overnight thing to go to which I thought was next friday. I'd arranged babysitters. Now I realise it's tonight. I can't get out of it without it causing a huge load of trouble and my babysitter is away this week. There is nobody else to lool after them.

They have been left home alone lots in the past, necessity as a working single mum. They are both happy left alone. They both have mobile phones. There are two house phones (upstairs and downstairs), they know the safety rules (no answering the door, telephone, no using kitchen appliances etc) and they have in the past been left home alone until 2am (accidental, car break down) and when I got home they were both fast asleep in bed. No problems.

It's a one off. AIBU to leave them alone all night? I have spoken to them about it, they're absolutely fine with it. I would have to leave at 6pm tonight and will be home about 8am.

Please don't flame me, just in a huge pickle here and looking for advice, not argument.

OP posts:
Goldmandra · 10/09/2012 15:59

They sound lovely zukiecat and like they are more than adequately prepared for adulthood.

modifiedmum · 10/09/2012 16:09

i agree with everyone else, i dont think you should leave kids alone overnight till they are at least 16.

jellybeans · 10/09/2012 16:13

YABU. I wouldn't do it.

zukiecat · 10/09/2012 16:21

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Teamumizumi · 10/09/2012 17:55

Where is OP? It either went horribly wrong or she didn 't go or she got someone to look after the kids. MRSKLEMON, answer us!!

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