AIBU for being upset that my DH used "our phrase" on Facebook?

[NCForNow]

It's a phrase that we used when we had our first DC. A made up one. It's not something that I have ever heard anyone else use and we always said it in relation to our first DD.

Now one of his mates has had a baby and he put our phrase on the friends comments box under the photo of their baby.

I asked him why he'd done this..and he went mad as if I had picked on him for nothing. He said he never knew I'd be upset though he knew it was a phrase which had personal meaning and emotional attachment for me and for him.

I can't understand why he'd say that on stupid FB!! He barely comments on things usually!

BoneyBack Thanks mate ...its all just come flooding back

Oh Boney I don't know and therein lies the problem. I ASSUMED he knew! It was always said at special or touching moments...moments where I thought we were especially close.

Obv that is not enough for him to grasp that for me...it was a private thing.

Not only are you so, completely, ridiculously unreasonable you sound utterly batshit crazy too. Don't blame your hormones, this is all you.

like mother-fucker?

I reckon your DP heard it from somewhere else before you guys 'made it up'. Maybe.

Share the phrase!

StuntGirl?

A bit much perhaps.

ice wtf are you on about?

Telly...maybe! Yes...I will share it now. But not on here! NOW it IS time for bed.

YANBU. You don't share your private jokes. I wouldn't like it either.

AF said was it like 'ratbags'?

you said, kind of but more flattering to the mother

I said, like 'mother-fucker'?

Well how is THAT flattering?

well, is not really

OP, YANBU. I know just how you feel.This sounds exactly like the time I stopped speaking to my sister because she bought the same horse magazine as me. Totally reasonable for an 11 year old.

OP, maybe your H really, really likes babies ?

they are kinda cute, and if this is the baby of a good friend, I think it's rather sweet

unless (going with the "flattering to the mother" theme") the phrase is something like "yay! Massive boobeez!"

< ahem >

I read the entire thread actually, and I still think you're acting like a loon.

Aah. The Pirahnas are circling. Surprise.

Yanbu and Yabu but you know that.

and what Mme Lundor said.

I'm desperatley thinkig of local colloquialisms and can only come up with "Babby's head" but cannot work that into a charming epithet.

This is like Rumplestiltskin. Do I win your dd if I guess it correctly?

And you're a bit U, but understandably so.

Well unless OP's DH said "That is one MILF" then I don't see the problem.

Wishiwassingle

And, yes, I agree with MmeLindor too.

You know, being just mean may be a quick way to get your jollies, but it doesn't produce the glancing and delightful wit that many older posters mourn the passing of ...

{nods at gatheringlilacs words of wisdom}

[Hides thread and loons off to bed]

YABU and bonkers.

I call the dog by DD's pet name sometimes. And the car and once someone else's DH.

Just words innit.

I am most about what the phrase actually is because I bet it's Blackadder or Red Dwarf.

Excuse me but discombobulated is my word.

its obviously a very important phrase to the OP, though possibly your husband didnt realise just how personal it was. Men can be like that sometimes you know not knowing hehe

Your obviously upset by it but I think you should calm down it was a honest mistake on his part dont be so harsh on him hunny. kiss and make up spread the love :)

is it your word pandemoniaa?