To be worried about DS after he had unprotected sex

[lavenderfields]

I am worried about DS. He went to a party and had unprotected sex with a girl. He came back and told us in his drunken state.

He knows all about condoms but said he didn't have one and wanted to get his first time over with. He says she wasn't a virgin and neither of them had any protection

He says she is on the pill but is worried she could have got pregnant or given him an sti. I rung sti clinic and they said wait 7 days before coming to be checked.

He now wants to text her to ask her if she remembered to take her pill but doesn't know how to phrase it. Any suggestions? I told him not to text as it will be rude but he is insisting.

Getting over the fact he was so bloody stupid, any helpful suggestions on what he could say? Will also put this in teenagers!

Do you mean saving yourself for marriage?
Or just being selective about your relationships?
I don't think either of mine are saving themselves for a wedding ring, but certainly DD and several of her friends both female and male are at uni and not shagging yet.
She just doesn't seem to have met anyone she wants to go that far with yet, she and her exes are all still friends. I was a very different sort of teenager.