to ask my sister to hide her pregnancy?

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Considering the way she got pregnant was to honey trap the father! They have one child already (but are not together) and she decided it wasn't fair that she didnt have a brother or sister so she got drunk to sleep with him but planned it so she was ovulating - obviously he knows nothing about her wicked plan.

I have a family function coming up and have told her I dont want it to be subject of converstaion (as totally embarrassed), AIBU????

YABFuckingU

You sound like a great sister. Very supportive.

FFS

YANBU

You poor poor embarrassed thing

It's all about you isn't it? And rightly so....

Tell me again, how does one 'honey trap' someone into getting them pregnant exactly?

Are you serious?
What is the family function?
She and her baby are your family, you know...

Can I offer a ?

"Wicked plan"? Really?

why should she hide her pregnancy. I don't belive you can honey trap a man....in the words of JK put something on the end of it

With family like you who needs enemies!

Never mind in the words of Jezza, this belongs on there!

Charming!

YABU

So if someone did that to your son you would be happy???

The father not taking any responsibilty for contraception?

Seriously, seriously and again wtf you want her to hide her pregnancy so you aren't scundered at a family event? Catch yourself on and grow up.

My sister has done something very similar. She wanted the maintainance money.

BUT it is really none of your (or my) business. Will you ask her to hide the baby once he or she is here?

Bonkers.

You, not her, in case you wondered.

Are you my niece?

So if someone did that to your son you would be happy???

No, I would be livid with him for not using contraception

You know...being as though I've drummed it into him for years....

I would, and will, expect my son, if he does not want a baby, to use his own form of birth control.

No glove. No love.

Words to live by, really.

Hahaha!!!!!!!

You are joking right?

He shouldn't have been so easy to trap!

How do you suggest she hides it when she gets to, say, 6 months? Ought she be confined or sent to the country?

how awful for you - maybe you should avoid any family get togethers for, like, ever

and a man can stick a condom on his knob is he doesn;t want to be 'trapped' by a woman

oh and YABVVVVU

If my son didn't put something on the end of it it would be his own stupid fault

I would hope my son used a condom. I would be happy to go out and buy him condoms.

not just to protect against pregnancy but STI

I think a convent, farty. Penance and privacy!

Here, OP, have my first ever to add to your collection.

Maybe you could lock her in your attic and then pass the child off as your own?

Ha ha, ok so I'm being VVVFU.

I just have morals