Getting a bit over the whole largely absent husband thing now
Been together 16yrs, married for 9
2 kids under 6
I'm SAHM, he is on v good salary, works in city
BUT IS NEVER HERE
Away on global work visits, deadlines, weekend deadlines....
Just fed up of being at the bottom of the pecking order.
Have raised these 2 kids largely overseas but now back in UK thank goodness, to be closer to my support networks
So am I being unreasonable to expect the father of my children to be home for tea with us all at least one evening each week? Seems like I have just been putting up with a lovely but absent partner for YEARS now
feel a bit sad to be honest
if anyone else has a similar DH with ling working hrs in finance, how do you cope with your kids and life in general, knowing he is 'there' but practically not really?