To think that he should not say or even think this??

[LucyFarinelli]

My mums boyfriend (of 10years) told me yesterday (whilst rather drunk) that i have "given him a permenant hard-on for the last 6 months"

I live with him, my mum and my DS (2yo).

What the hell do I do??

Eww. I think I'd tell my mum.

Oh god, what a disgusting pig.

I would be making arrangements to move out asap.

Eww indeed. I would tell my Mum too.

Thanks Ladies. I'm due to move out in the next few months (when I go to uni). I am actually creeped out and a little scared.

How old are you, OP?

Definitely tell your mum. Tell her now. Tell her that he's scared you, too.

Have you noticed him looking at you? Is he conveniently outside the bathroom when you come out?

Urgghhhh! Poor you - thank god you are leaving.

Your poor Mum though!

Tell your mum.

I would.

I don't think I'd want to be with someone who said that about my daughter. Would be a bit of a deal breaker I think!

Tell your mother. She might realise that she's made a mistake.

That is so creepy. I would tell your mum if I were you. A friend of mine was regularly spied on getting changed by her mum's boyfriend, the mum kicked him out once she realised what was going on.

I'll third the "eewww". I would say tell your mum too....steer clear of him as much as you can and look forward to your moving out date. x

I'm assuming you're fairly young? So he's known yousince you were a child?
Hope you can get out soon.

Imperial I'm 22. And I have my own bathroom, so... But no, I've never noticed. He said it was my fault because (since I lost lots of weight) I've been wearing tight fitting clothing.

How old are you, and how old is he? That's bang out of order.

He can think it, and there's nothing you can do about that, but to say it?

Stealth He moved in with us when I was 12

If you have a 2 year old son you are presumably a grown woman, not a teenager. I don't see why you should tell your mum, frankly. But you definitely need to leave home!

Josephine He's 38

That is disgusting. He's known you since you were 12! Sorry but how can even think of you in that way?

well Yus in the hope her mum might dump him I assume

OMG. That's revolting.

I would tell your mum.

Yuk. You can't control his thoughts, but it's deeply unpleasant for him to have said that.

I think you should tell your mum, and move out asap.

I don't see the problem. By all means OP tell your mother - she might kick him out, or she might blame you. Or she might just reflect that we have all said and done stupid things when pissed and not be so quick to condemn.

Tell your mum. Very soon. Utter creep.

yes, YusMilady - parental figure tells stepdaughter he fancies her, Silly-billy

TBH I'd just read him the riot act and tell him if he ever says that again you're telling your mother. The OP is 22, not a child, and people make mistakes when they're drunk.