to really not identify with the feminist boards on here, when i always thought I was a feminist

[DinahMoHum]

seems so joyless and anti sex.

I feel very conflicted now. I always thought feminism was about equality for women, which I dont believe we have, but it seems to re\lly be focusing on the wrong issues for me, and getting too much into dynamics of personal relationships, and peoples sexual preferences

im probably being unreasonable

Gosh. Jesse and SGM I feel all warm and fuzzy now

I can't help but think that MN would be a lot better, if it was possible to crack down on the emotional vampire trolls, and the trolls that plague FWR. They target different sections, but the general effect is similar: MNers become wary of posters they don't "know", and answer more cautiously. No-one wants to repeatedly commit emotional energy and time communicating with a troll.
Oh wait, I think that's been said on every single thread so far.

PS: PlumpDogPillionaire I'd join in your proposal with alacrity, but I don't want to fill up the thread, in case Dinah comes back.