AIBU to place a pillow underneath my bottom when I have sex in the missionary position?

[NotSuchASmugMarriedNow]

Well am I? I have a new lover and he said he'd never ever known anyone to do that!!!!! Not that he minded, just that he hadn't seet it before!!! He's 55!!!!!

I've always done that, just to elevate the vagina a bit.

Tell me IANBU or even that IABU!!!!

I just want to know whether i'm "normal"

Deviant? Oh yes

Of course the G spot exists!
But actually, it is just the back wall of your clitoris iyswim.
Whats bestest is to stimulate the clit, on the outside, and the g spot on the inside at the same time..

Why is there no app to draw a diagram on MN!

This is very interesting, nowthen. I've had an investigate (not this evening!), but all I can find is an area that makes me want to do a wee. It's not very sexy.

I believe in my G-spot

I think that might be the one! Things don't always feel the same after you have, er, got going a bit.
I remember the first time I encountered my clit (discovered after perusing a diagram in a book about periods called "Have you started yet".
I went "Ew!" at first, but on perseverence..

Reminds me (off topic) of a sex education book for ?teenagers I once perused. It contained a patronising story and some anatomical drawings - NOT INCLUDING THE CLITORIS. At all.

written by a bloke was it, that book, joan ?

That's terrible joanof! Imagine if you saw the picture and you didn't know where it was supposed to be.

Good old the clitoris. I am a fan.

my clitoris changed my life

Hard to tell. The main thrust, as it were, of the sex education, was explaining that men feel protective of their wives when they are pregnant. I don't recall it recommending feathery stroking as a contraceptive but perhaps I didn't read to the end.

Oh hang on, I think I finally get what the g spot is! It's an internal reach around for the clitoris?

Hmm. I might put that on my things to do list.

The Clitoris rules.
I didn't actually know of the existence of the clit until I read that book, and I was about 14!No-one ever mentioned it. I had seen porn mags at school and everything. Its a conspiricy of silence!
(probably not any more though!)

yes reallyfarout, thats it.

We've used a pillow for those lazy nights when we're horny but too knackered to walk to the dining table. If no pillow easily accessible we just grab whichever cat is in the room.

In male magazines (I used to swap girl magazines with my male friends when we were teens...) it said to find your g-spot, you should do a 'come here' impression with your finger. Guess that would be the otherside of the clitoris.

My g-spot is definitely real. Was genuinely salivating over my DP's shoulder the other day . With pillow, without sex towel, I must add.

Pillows are okay, but what is better is to find a man with some muscle and just get him to go up on his knees and lift you up like an upside-down wheelbarrow type thing.

I have a bush! Can I fly the flag for twenty-something bushes?

Yay! Hoik that hairy flag high bertie!
Interestingly ds wants to name our new cat Bertie..

It's a great name

@ hairy sex pillow cat called bertie

When i was at uni we googled squirting on one of our sit around watching porn eating cake nights.

There was a bloke showing you how to find the g spot, I made dp watch it and we were well away. Didn't think I'd got one until then. Haven't managed to squirt though

There's an 'A' spot too. I have found it. My G spot makes me feel like I want a wee, but my A spot (opposite, to the left a bit, just past the chippy) feels like a clit being rubbed with the... ahem.. labia minora and is very, very nice if you get the right angle.

The directions I gave weren't accurate by the way. It's much closer to the entrance and is part of the whole clitoral area which extends inside.

Hairy pussy named Bertie AF
I will never look at the cat in the same way again!