to just be a bit shocked by what I found on our computer today?

[MrsJangleBalls]

Disclaimer - I was not bloody snooping!

Well only a little bit. Long story but bear with me...

I am currently trying to download iCloud. It says to go to Networks and Sharing. Well it wasn't there, but access to my dh's files was. His pictures file. Now I know he collects pictures of nude wimmin because I've seen him looking at them before. So I thought I'd take a peek at the kind of thing he was looking at. It was pretty harmless, just lots of posed pictures of naked women, etc. That wasn't what shocked me.

There were over 13,000 pictures.

It was like a fucking library. There were folders, sub-folders, categories, sub-categories, different fetishes, a whole folder full of folders of different women with hundreds of pictures of them in each one (and each one was named!) not to mention folders of lingerie, etc.

Now I know I probably got what I deserved, but 13,000? That's bloody years of collecting it. There's no way I'm going to tell him I've seen it. I didn't touch it, just looked through it. He obviously doesn't know I can find it.

I feel like I ought to be impressed at the sheer scale of it. I'm tempted to move it and wait for him to start asking panicky questions about whether the computer has gone wrong or not.

pmsl@Xenia

You really do say some spectacularly dim things for such a supposedly bright woman

You think this thread doesn't make sense.You should try the 'Why do women menstruate' thread!

I'll give it a miss if it makes less sense than this.

My husband does not use porn, unless you count the Anne Summers catalouge.
I object to porn because of the exploitation of women, the fact that for the most part it is not representative of how sex really works and the way women are depicted in mainstream porn.
As someone has mentioned artistic representations seem a better arlternative but nowadays with sites like literotica you can also read about sexual encounters of almost any nature, which also don't involve people being exploited because (for the most part) they are written from peoples imaginations. My only bone of contention with literotica is that it does advertise porn.
I turned this round last night and asked my oh what he would think if he found 13,000 pornographic images on my computer and his feeling was it would indicate some kind of problem, obsessive or otherwise.

I'm going to change my name to 'Myhusbanddoesnotuseporn' if one more person pops up and says it!

"asexual mothers of Mumsnet"

bingo

Only fat, asexual women who have let themselves go' get cheated on or have to suffer husbands with porn addictions. That is, like, so obvious. Duh.

My husband doesn't use porn

I thought fat birds loved getting shagged ?

Have I been misled ?

Lay off the fat birds.Theyr'e the only ones I get.

Ha

Actually I love sex and have a great sex life

Even without porn! How crazy is that?

I find it ironic that all the pro-porn people on this thread are so narrow-minded

Is it really so hard to imagine that some people don't need or like porn?

Fat birds should be grateful for getting a shag, AF, surely? And if they find themselves in a relationship with a man who would rather have a wank over skinny minnies on tinternet, well....they only have themselves to blame? Because men just cant help only getting hot for PlayBoy Bunnies, can they? Isnt that right, Xenia?

Yes we do anyfucker we're great full too apparently!

yes, the fat ones are so grateful

thank god for that, I thought my stereotype monitor was on the blink

lolly lay off the "is it a man, is it a woman" confoundery

you can get banned for that

oh

Sorry.

Will also put out for half a lager

I'm not fat anyway am just round buxom voluptuous cuddly

Myhusbanddoesnotuseporn

Myhusbanddoesnotwankeither

Peanut...how about a bag of chips ?

I'm going to change my name to 'myhusbanddoesnotwankeither' if one more person pops up and says it!

anyfucker an offer of chips? Are you trying to get into my tent like pants?

I'm not fat either.My clothes are just tight.

I am not sure if you are fat enough, peanut