to want to sleep with this married man?

[pumpkincarver]

so. Met a wonderful guy, married, no kids. Am on the verge to start an affair, a fling (I'm not sure what yet) with him. I've never felt such strong attraction towards anyone else, hence my strong desire to go ahead.

I'm separated and single.
Am wondering how this rates on Mumsnet's grand moral scale.
Opinions appreciated, and no offence will be taken : )

In which case, drop the selfish irresponsible bit, that's what you're being and because you've been on the receiving end, doesn't mean you should dish it out. What do you know about his wife? How will she feel if she did find out? Is her mental health/physical health stable? Find yourself a nice, stable, single bloke and keep this one for bedtime fantasies, that way, nobody gets hurt.

So not believing a word of this.

just remember that when you're er indoor forthetaking
everything,will be your fault for not being attentive enough,not the poonhound partner (he can't help himself - your fault) and will you sagely nod and say och well if only were more attentive...

"Maybe a bit of heartache is the price worth paying for a lovely, passionate fling."

Yes but you risk it not only being your heartache but his wife's as well. Why should she potentially pay for your jolly? Because all those lovely, passionate moment he would be having with you is time and emotional energy stolen from his wife.

midlands you betcha

Thanks running! well jeeez say what others are thinking. When he kisses you remember his tongue has been between his wifes legs the night before, can you handle it!

No. Your scenario wont happen.

HE will be in control. He will be calling the shots. You will fall in love. It will end up in tears.

OMG Fabby...Thats vile!!!!

Argh Fabby stop with the mental imagery! True though.

You've read too many Jackie Collins OP.

Or you're a wind-up merchant.

Anyfucker wasn't being serious, I'm quite sure of that. Think she's just calling this whale-sandwich of an OP on it.

Hahaha fabby keep going I nearly wet myself laughing then

You know his tongue may have been between his wife's legs the night before and his office bimbo's at lunchtime. He may not have even had a tictac since.

I guarantee you will not be his only conquest if he is this easily led astray.

OP, when you're done with him, pass his number along to me

I fancy a bit of that

and I don't mind the recycled body fluids

I bet his wife is dead stuck up

Is there some idiot masquerading as the AF who gives good advice?Oh and by the way YABU OP,and you sound like a real piece of work.

And fridged

I bet you are not the only shag on the side this heavenly man has had....
How do you know he even is married? Maybe he only says he is, to ensure you dont think it can develop into anything serious?

"He may not have even had a tictac since." I'm wetting myself here!!!

hah ah ah ah a tictac ffs. that is funny.

Fish breath.

He will be comparing the size of your fannys, is yours tighter than hers? Can you juggle his balls like she does?

What if he only wants to try on you what she refuses will you let him shag your arse.

Fabby, nothing you say could put me off him.

I hear what you're all saying and am seriously torn! But he's just the most incredible man I've ever stumbled upon

LOL

Why can'y any of you see that AnyFucker is just trying not to feed the troll?

If we all replied like this perhaps the OP will bugger off.

It might not only be fanny juice you licking it could also be her shit when its been up her arse.