to want to sleep with this married man?

[pumpkincarver]

so. Met a wonderful guy, married, no kids. Am on the verge to start an affair, a fling (I'm not sure what yet) with him. I've never felt such strong attraction towards anyone else, hence my strong desire to go ahead.

I'm separated and single.
Am wondering how this rates on Mumsnet's grand moral scale.
Opinions appreciated, and no offence will be taken : )

pumpkincarver, unless you can say, hand-on-heart, that you believe this man is a manipulative, deceitful, accomplished liar, I'd assume that his wife will find out about his affair, at some point.

And if you thought he was all those things, you wouldn't want him, surely? So, erm, don't rate your chances of a fling without it being found out.

at OP
However if he doesn't have sex with you he'll probably find someone else. We're not talking about a person who is loyal.
He's not wonderful. I've never known an unfaithful married man who is wonderful.
Though if you sleep with married men and get fucked over in the process don't expect sympathy on MN.

Sadly (for you) OP, it sounds like he is not going to pursue you because he can't be bothered as he probably just wanted an easy lay, not someone he 's have to chase and woo.

'But personally I wouldn't want to get involved with a man who has so little respect for his wife and marriage' agree with you Worra. Don't know what the MN moral scale is but my moral scale is that infidelity (or encouraging infidelity) is wrong.

Don't know what the MN moral scale is but my moral scale is that infidelity (or encouraging infidelity) is wrong.Exactly CHOCABLOCK.

Loyalty comes first with me. If a man doesn't understand it, I wouldn't want to know him.

No one will ever change your mind but do remember-GOES AROUND COMES AROUND TWICE HARDER...
Karma is a bitch if you are the one....not that i am saying you are. Don't play with other peoples lives...it's not like you didn't know he is married , you know and you are still getting into it....You are very sad woman.....