I don't deal with self-aggrandizing, vain people well. Just one sniff of an ego-massaging agenda and I go into shutdown. It's not a fun way to live, since nobody else seems to mind too much. I love hearing about good people doing good things; I can spot an egotist a mile off though. There's no fine line for me.
I also can't bear those very sociable women you see who are totally empty-headed, but really good at 'keeping it light' - I just think: but you're a fraud! None of what you just said was interesting! I can never understand why those people aren't rumbled but I've come to accept that the rest of the world is probably not wrong and therefore it's just me.
I procrastinate like nothing you've ever seen. I achieve very little, I think. Sometimes I forget this and then I remember how little I contribute relative to others.
I have a terrible temper and a bit of an acid tongue. Withering. It hardly ever comes out now.
I bear grudges for throwaway comments that I really ought to just let go.
I'm a complete control freak in a family of control freaks who pretend not to be (the ILs). It makes me slightly murderous. I try to control the feelings of rage but am quite spiky with them sometimes.
I take it to heart very much when people don't make an effort with me/us or recognise my effort, and then I realise later that they were having a very hard time and probably needed quite a bit more from their friends at that time. I'm terrible at seeing that at the right time.
I could go on in this vein all evening 
I also drink too much and eat too much cake. (But not tonight 
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