To be hugely pissed of with my radical feminist friend.

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She was at my house this morning and felt it her place to lecture me that because I am married I am in servitude. (WTF!) And another lecture that allowing my husband to have PIV sex with me was tanatamount to him sexualy assaulting me on a regular basis.

Now I can utterly accept her not wanting to have PIV sex. But who the fuck is she to tell me I damn well shouldnt? She then banged on that it was abusive due to the risk of unwanted pregnancy. (DH has had the snip, so no risk) I happen to like being penetrated and will happily penetrate myself for enjoyment.
Sex for me is a very varied thing and involves many things.

I know that some feminists have strong views on marriage, but again its my life and MY choice. And I certainly dont live in any kind of bloody servitude.

My last sexy voice caller was a pensions advisor from Barclays Bank - he was taking a load of boring crap but his voice was amazing - he could have sold me anything.

at sugar.

ry - there's a guy at our Barclays with a gorgeous voice, tall, dark and handsome ... and unfortunately breathtakingly rude, sexist and racist, managed to offend both me and DH in about 3 sentences. Life's tough sometimes, right?

LMAO - what did he say?

Could try the P in the E (ear) but might mess your hair up.
Q. Has your friend got hair or did she shave it all off as a two fingered salute at her femininity?

Q. Why is she your friend?
Q. Is she real?

This is clearly a wind up thread, isn't it? You know, designed to whip up a frenzy of hatred for a particular group by taking the example of something said/done by one person in that group and extrapolating that every in that group is contemptible? It's like the, "I was mugged by a Black man yesterday," or "I was propositioned by a Lesbian in the bar last week."

Yeah, it's a great way of getting folks to come out of the woodwork and give their prejudices a good old airing.

(Quite sad though to see women suggesting other women "need a good shag" - i.e. should be raped, but there you go.)

Of course it's a wind up Kritiq. Made me laugh though (although I didn't read other posts and defo not about women needing a good shag; that sounds more like a bloke down the pub showing off to his neanderthal drunk mates!)

Ok, gotcha.

I'll just grab my popcorn and wait for the next one.

kritiq...yes it was bollocks, that is fairly clear

designed to whip up some proper frothing

it doesn't seem to have worked though

neither does WMW's attempt at throwing a bomb in...best ignored

IF you want sexy voices, you could try getting a job for a phone sex company. The proportion of men who actually had sexy voices was startlingly high when I did it.

OP - so what does she think about your DH being a SAHD?

Presumably she think's that's fab? Also how come she's never mentioned this to you before i.e before you got married?

KRITIQ, I agree it's a wind-up involving a Mythical Radical Feminist, but I also say kudos to StewieGriffin and Elladee and others who called the posters (whose sheer numbers slightly shocked me) who thought Dworkin and the Mythical Radical Feminist needed 'a good shag' - that's pretty disgusting and misogynist.

Quite sad though to see women suggesting other women "need a good shag" - i.e. should be raped, but there you go

So are you saying having a good shag is the same as being raped?

Oh, my typing fingers are itching but it'd just get deleted.

(Btw, sorry ry, I went off to bed, but the answer wasn't terribly exciting ... he just put me off deep-voiced men for a wee while!)

WMW is best ignored, seriously

Let that bomb be the damp squib it is

Not wurf it

I just spent two minutes staring earnestly, wondering how I would 'wurf' something if I so chose.

Better now!

Ah well, mythical or no, it's always nice to chat about sex and language IMO (which seems to be what this turned into).

Oh yes, I like both those things

It's ok Ella - I fell asleep too [last of the red hot lovers]

haha OP you should tell you friend you've taken her advice on board, had a rethink and now you're doing anal!!! really deadpan .

Solidgold; your job has piqued my interest - you'll have to tell me about it one day.

Just texted friend and both of us have conceded to being a bit out of line yesterday. (her for not realising that my boundarys had been reached, and me for exploding at realy very little provocation)

Some of the questions on her directed at me are worth answering.

Why am I friends with her? ..... Im friends with a whole lot of different people and this was the first time a conversation had gone anywhere near to restructuring my life. This is also a person that I have had some very chalenging and great conversations with.

And her opinion of DH being a SAHD and why this never came up before I married? ..... Married for 11 years so DH was about long before I met this particular friend. And his being a SAHD has not come up in anyway memorable.

It might also be worth mentioning that both of us had thought it was a good idea to have a few drinks at 10am so the was a factor in the whole thing.

My argument would just be PIV is the best :)
I can't orgasm though it but otherwise I don't feel I have a well rounded bit of sexual interaction with my LP