To be hugely pissed of with my radical feminist friend.

[NambaJam]

She was at my house this morning and felt it her place to lecture me that because I am married I am in servitude. (WTF!) And another lecture that allowing my husband to have PIV sex with me was tanatamount to him sexualy assaulting me on a regular basis.

Now I can utterly accept her not wanting to have PIV sex. But who the fuck is she to tell me I damn well shouldnt? She then banged on that it was abusive due to the risk of unwanted pregnancy. (DH has had the snip, so no risk) I happen to like being penetrated and will happily penetrate myself for enjoyment.
Sex for me is a very varied thing and involves many things.

I know that some feminists have strong views on marriage, but again its my life and MY choice. And I certainly dont live in any kind of bloody servitude.

YABU.... because your 'friend' is almost certainly a figment of your imagination.

I have already started using the term piv.

As in "Piv off!" and "What the piv has happened to my blue socks?"

I could go on... But ah, piv it. :o

fake fake fake

If I want poked with PIV sex then it's my right to have that. Where else should it go during sex? She's obviously never had a good seeing to, as if she had she'd be wanting more.

Howsabout PIE with custard? Is that greedy or pervy or both?

Funniest thread of the day.

Oh yeah baby, I gonna bake this PIE... :)

Yeah, Yeah, Yeah.

sugarpaste the friend may not have dreamt it up but its still a nutty idea. That poor Dworkin woman must have been having terrible sex if she decided all heterosexual sex was degrading to women. Shame for her :(

yes it's known it rad-fem circles but it's one topic that always gets a hostile reaction from people that try to reduce it to 'feminists don't like sex'

All the posts saying that your friend is jealous and just needs PIV are very interesting from a feminist pov

SPZ ..... Are you serious that this is a common stance?

Seems a little odd to me. However saying that if someone told me I had to only have PIV sex for the rest of my days I would be a little enraged to say the least.

But isnt that saying that it is somehow wrong to be hetrosexual? I thought one of the things feminism was working on was equality and acceptance?

So what's POV? Penis over vagina? Is that some sort of pre-PIV pervery?

We used to have PIV before we had children. Now we have PIG (penis in gunt). [hgrin]

PIV is an analytical tool for understanding how human sexuality is constructed

And there's silly old me thinking it's how you make babies. I'm going to hop over to the conception boards and point out that all that PIV shagging they are doing is merely an analytical tool for understanding how human sexuality is constructed. I'm sure they would find it helpful.

Well, I think that people who spend all their lives philosophising and pontificating on these matters, need to get out more and have a good shag.

A few weeks post-birth I'm having a lot of Penis Back In Your Trousers, Please.

Of course it's possible. It's called foreplay

Oh do stop. I keep feminism hidden because of this sort of nonsense.

The thing is that most women and men enjoy 'piv' sex (sorry, but the phrase is so annoying I put it in inverted commas). So, y'know, that's the fact of the matter an' all that.

^bollocks*

I bollocksed that up

bollocks

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