To be hugely pissed of with my radical feminist friend.

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She was at my house this morning and felt it her place to lecture me that because I am married I am in servitude. (WTF!) And another lecture that allowing my husband to have PIV sex with me was tanatamount to him sexualy assaulting me on a regular basis.

Now I can utterly accept her not wanting to have PIV sex. But who the fuck is she to tell me I damn well shouldnt? She then banged on that it was abusive due to the risk of unwanted pregnancy. (DH has had the snip, so no risk) I happen to like being penetrated and will happily penetrate myself for enjoyment.
Sex for me is a very varied thing and involves many things.

I know that some feminists have strong views on marriage, but again its my life and MY choice. And I certainly dont live in any kind of bloody servitude.

rhubarb rhubarb rhubarb

It's depressing how gullible some people are. PIV, ho ho ho.

BOSh is my favourite alternative. Bollocks on shoulder sex. Amazing.

So your friend has an issue with you having sex in your vagina.

Does she have a problem with you talking out of your arse?

Don't understand this 'gullibility'. Feminism does think that 'piv' sex has a negative side to it. It's believable that the opening poster is a genuine person and that her story is true. Nothing she has said about her friend is unbelievable within the context of feminism.

PIE sex

he sticks his nob in your lughole while you enjoy a tasty cheese'n'onion...

It doesn't surprise me one tiny bit to see you lining up with the OP, Wamster. This lot have certainly got a few friends on here.

As for those who are basically saying 'all this stupid woman needs is a good seeing to', shame on you.

Loving PIV now as alternative to F - thanks Belle.
Who the PIV do you think you are?
What the PIV do you think you're doing?
WTAPIV...

PIN sex.

(Fuck nose)

Fair enough about piv sex in the context of a country where stds are rife and where there is little or no contraception, but the op's friend was talking about piv within the context of a normal, loving relationship.

PIS

Sleeve fun

and

PISS

for short-sleeved sunny days...

Unfortunately I don't think dh will be up for any piv tonight. Apparently I broke him at the weekend

Hahaha

So what's the rad feminist stance on a tit wank then?

So could someone explain why a woman in a consensual, hetrosexual relationship in this country who does have access to contraception/abortion should concur with the idea that "PIV" sex is degrading to her?

Whilst I get what you're saying bof by coming out with a comment like it basically implied that women don't like sex and only do t to keep their ma happy. Now I know in some instances this is sadly true but why is this sweeping generalisation ok when others aren't?

Oh look, a stampede of troll hunters.

Where do people find these ranty bossy feminist friends who give them orders about their sex lives? I know enormous numbers of politically active feminists and none of them would ever do that. We need a couple at our local group, it would liven meetings up no end.

So basically it's just those poor wimmin in third world countries that shouldn't have penetrative sex then?
Because a few radical feminists think it would be better for them.
Better to teach them about birth control and how to avoid stds first I think.
How very patronising.