dating someone who has behaved improperly

[MitchiestInge]

eg: if you were a patient in hospital and someone involved in your care got your number and asked you out, how bad would it be to go out with them? if they were nice obviously

I've been quite good at ignoring his calls, not that he has been very pestery, but today made arrangements to meet next week so on a scale of 1 to 10 with 10 being unspeakably stupid and 1 being barely registrable on idiocy scale how bad is it?

I am sorry if you thought I was jeering, that was not my intention.

Well done Mitchy, you are doing the right thing. And you do deserve better. :)

Agree with Lougle

Well done, Mitch. Don't be worried about not doing the reporting yourself. Thy is what you have the support for, to support you when you need it.

Chuffed that you took the advice offered on the thread.

thanks everyone

ripstheirthroatoutliveupstairs - sorry I misinferred

Have been following your thread but had nothing useful/helpful to add to all the good advice but just wanted to add congratulations that you are dealing with it and getting the support you need xxx

As Lougle said, not only is this not your fault in the least but even when you are not very well, you are aware that there is something wrong about this man's behaviour, which shows insight and strength. You have nothing whatsoever to be ashamed of. He, on the other hand, has masses to be ashamed of but is probably the sort of shitbag who feels no shame at all over his ruthless, selfish, predatory, exploitative behaviour.