to be devasted and struggling to get over this nasty wicked comment

[sunshinelifeisgood]

A long story cut short. Had a great family and friends day out today at a festival. My dd and her bf came with me and my siblings were there. It was lovely. My brothers oldest friend came, I have known him since I was very small.

At the end of the evening (9.30pm) myself, daughter and her boyfriend were standing chatting wating for the taxi, brothers friend came up to me and said

Hi Susi was just thinking that if you did not have a hare lip you could of gone so much further :(.

My daughter looked at me and I laughed and said "Dont worry about it and did the woosh over the head thing, but she was furious. I had to laugh it off and said "well at least I am a nice person".

We got a cab back and to be honest I encouraged her to go stay at her bf (she is 19 ) and I came in and cried and cried. How can someone be so mean and nasty I cant get over it.
I try my very best to be nice to people, i'm not saying I am perfect but I would never deliberately be nasty to someone and that is the truth. I feel fecking gutted and humilated and guess I just wanted to talk

[Longtalljosie]

sunshine - he made you feel like that because he was bullying you. It wasn't thoughtless. He knew precisely what he was doing.

Some people only get to feel better about themselves by putting other people down. Which means they're pretty pathetic.

[exoticfruits]

I agree, he is pathetic and the best thing to do is totally ignore and just put him out of mind-it was straight back to the playground and your mother was right.