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Called a woman an "evil bitch!"

202 replies

SquiggleSplat · 11/07/2011 13:40

Posted this in "other subjects" but didn't get a response in 4 minutes and I'm feeling impatient!

I was coming out of a car park earlier today and there was car in the lane next to mine. A woman was driving and a small child (2/3ish) was climbing about inside the car and not strapped in. I hate it when you see that as it's so stupid and irresponsible! A child around here died not that long ago in a similar situation. So anyway being a big mouth this happened . . . I honked my horn to get her attention and said -

me: strap your child in, that's dangerous and illegal
her: oh SHUT UP!
me: you EVIL BITCH! (top of my lungs! Blush)

Now I know some won't agree with the language but, well, I don't care about that. As far as I am concerned she is an evil bitch so why shouldn't I tell her I think so! One emergency stop and that child would either go though the windscreen or hit the dashboard (as the other child did) and break her neck Sad

Being called a bitch was getting off lightly when she came very closs to being beaten to death with my flip flop!!!

OP posts:
BoysAreLikeDogs · 11/07/2011 18:42

lol at you're dead lie down, Alpine

spiderpig8 · 11/07/2011 18:42

'someone has to tell her how dangerous it is'

Why?? Do you think she lives on mars???

All your actions would have done is rattle hetr and make her more likely to have an accident.In any case WTF are you to tell her waht to do??

Pagwatch · 11/07/2011 18:46

Yy. Mad Hully Grin

Did you see my pagboy post hully? He has gone away so I am missing him. He did very sweet parcel related thing.

spiderpig8 · 11/07/2011 18:51

In fact why didn't you smile and say 'excuse me sorry to bother you but I think your little one has unstrapped himself.Little monkeys aren't they?'
Your aggressive approach lefy her no way of saving face,hence her behaving like a frustrated toddler!
To shout 'evil bitch' at her in front of her child is dispicable.Did your own child hear you carrying on like a fishwife too??

Hullygully · 11/07/2011 19:05

No, where is it Paggy?

Hullygully · 11/07/2011 19:06

I already said that spiderpig, to win the competitionm you have to say it differently. Tut. Not just add on the fishwife bit.

ShirleyKnot · 11/07/2011 19:09

Hully smells like a fishwife. That's even worserererer.

Hullygully · 11/07/2011 19:17

Just because I married a halibut.

Why do people have to be so cruel?

ShirleyKnot · 11/07/2011 19:19

Why are fishwives called fishwives? Were they married to fishermen and fishermenwives had to shout and swear in the street to sell their...husband's fish or summat?

ShirleyKnot · 11/07/2011 19:20

Oh and I loves you Hully. You seem full of ennui today. Are you ennuiful?

Hullygully · 11/07/2011 19:22

I am Preoccupied with Weighty Matters.

I must soon depart the shores of fair Albion for my annual sojourn in parts furrin and there is much To Do.

Plus MN is very dull today, so much so that everyone had to get their teeth into a Seatbelt Saga. I have a couple of little hopelets about MarySue's latest, but it's poor fare really.

ShirleyKnot · 11/07/2011 19:26

in a slightly creepy fashion.

OooOoooOoo. I am also contemplating my packing for the sweet isle of greeceness. And I HATE packing. HATE.

It's nice to see Jamez back again.

Hullygully · 11/07/2011 19:32

I have assembled three towers of books made a good start on the evil packing

ballpoolbaby · 11/07/2011 19:36

You claim to have the 'best interests' of that poor lady's child at heart then scream and shout at his/her mum and swear in front of the toddler? You sound like a right busybody and the sort of person who becomes a bit of a warrior towards everyone once they get in the safe box that is their car. That poor woman and toddler- you need to get a grip of yourself and get down the gym to do something productive with your anger. There are ways of explaining your concerns to people but your attitude is disgusting and uncaring- you should be ashamed not half boasting about it on a website.

ShirleyKnot · 11/07/2011 19:41

I will ignore it completely until the night before we go and then I will hate myself.

Hullygully · 11/07/2011 19:45

yy, Shirl. And then drink loads of wine to make it tolerable and arrive to discover that you forgot all your knickers.

ShirleyKnot · 11/07/2011 19:50

YES! and also have an horrific hangover the next morning and get to the airport and just think "next year, I am so not doing this and I am going to start packing the week before"

Have you set up a shirleycam or summat?

BecauseImWorthIt · 11/07/2011 19:51

I'll do your packing for you! I love it. I can even do lists and everyfink Grin

ShirleyKnot · 11/07/2011 19:54

What what??? BIWI you've always seemed so normal before! Grin

Pagwatch · 11/07/2011 20:14

I am brilliant at packing. I make beewee look like an amature.

Hully - not sure where it has gone but it was thus...
Dh and I in the garden
Pagboy see postie arrive with parcel which he knows contains a toy for him.
Answers door Shock
Speaks to postie -more Shock and signs for parcel -triple Shock.

We find pagboy with parcel and find out what happened. It seems that when asked to sign pagboy signed..
"happy pagboy"

Grin how great is that?
BecauseImWorthIt · 11/07/2011 20:15

'salright Shirl, I'll drink a bucket of wine at the same time

ShirleyKnot · 11/07/2011 20:19

Oh pag!

How amazing is that?

Drunk packing is the only sort of packing I seem capable of doing.

Pagwatch · 11/07/2011 20:22

Grin at drunk packing. A fine idea.

I am going to start signing thing Happy Pagwatch.
Or Pissed Pagwatch.
You could be shit-faced shirl.
Blotto biwi?

zoe88 · 11/07/2011 20:48

YANBU I have a recurring argument with a friend of mine about car seat safety, both our kids are same age 4yrs4mth and since she had her 3rd child in january she doesnt bother with a car seat for eldest daughter according to her 3 seats dont fit in the car, this really makes me angry because it is really fucking dangerous!!!! i have printed out information for her, offered to give her a car seat just incase its a money issue its getting to the point where i want to punch her!!! childrens lives are much more important than being polite!!

begonyabampot · 11/07/2011 21:11

we used to have a mum at school who never strapped in her kids. Saw it several times. She was driving pulling away one day and I pretended surprise in my most passive aggressive tone, knocked on her window and said, 'oh wait a sec, the kids haven't strapped in yet (smile)'. Her, 'oh no it's ok i don't have any seatbelts, bigger radiant smile' and drove off.