To think that my friend is being uptight to dictate what snacks can be consumed in her house?

[firemansamantha]

I have a group of friends, met through antenatal classes.

We've always met around each other's houses for a chat and catch up. The babies are all 9 months old now and been weaned a while.

Quite a few of the babies snack on raisins. This one friend has a dog(which she thanksfully locks in another room while we're there,. as I don#t want their dog around my DS).

Anyway, this one friend has a "no raisin" rule and basically refuses to let us give the DC raisins at her house. This is a right pain in the arse as DS loves them and they really get him out of bad/grumpy moods.

Friend says raisins aren't good for dogs but I just think it's rude for her to tell us what can and can't be eaten by 9 month old babies!

AIBU?

I think I'd be really if I'd got to the second child and people still though I treated them like a PFB. Maybe time to look in the mirror OP

YABU

I still can't get over giving raisins to babies

Thank you DBF. OP, YABU (tho you may not know it). Much as your kid loves his raisins, do you really want to kill this woman's dog?

Say your child had a peanut allergy and would go into anaphellatic (sp?) shock. Would you think it was unreasonable for your friend to come round and feed her toddler a bag of peanuts? Even if you put your child in another room while they were there?