To ask why some women don't have sex with their husbands enough?

[dontstopbelieving]

Just from reading some threads I think some women don't realise how much a man needs sex. Totally on a different level to how we do but making that bit of effort not to think about how tired we are (I am most of the time) but just from my experience they don't want firework inducing experiences. Its just how men feel close and connected is by having sex. Shouldn't we make the effort to make the effort?

I haven't read all of this but I have a friend with divorced parents and she said her dad had an affair was a bastard accoridngly for doing so.

This was when we didn't know each other that well. When the friendship deepened she told me her mother had never ever liked sex, made no effort with it, and once she had had her children she never wanted to have it again and so didn't have sex with her DH anymore. They were 35 at the time. I don't know if my stance is BU but to some extent I had some sympathy for her dad in having an affair. Her mum effectively expected her dad to never have sex again when he was only 35. That's too much to ask of a 30's man if ask me.

Just don't wake me up or leave me mucky