To be shaking with jealousy over this girl and DH?!

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Ok, I never get jealous so thi sfeels really alien to me but my heart is beating really fast and I feel ill!
Basically he has started a new job and has made friends with a girl who is a gorgeous part time underwear model and they have just made friends on facebook, she is really outgoing and put on her page she loves older men (she is 24, DH is 30) and going to the gym. DH also works out loads and is very good looking, women go a bit doe eyed around him. She has messaged him on facebook asking a seeminly inncocent work question followed by kisses.
I trust DH but I feel so strange and shaky!!! AIBU

Yes i aggree,any decent bloke would want you to feel ok,and dh was generally suprised when i told him how crap i was feeling about an upcoming event and not looking good.Tis too true tho about the ow not having to be stunning,my xh went off with a right minger imho

Tell him he can shag her if he wants to. If he does, he'll be refreshed and ready to return full of genuine love and affection for his wife and bearer of his kids. Tell him understand his animal urges and if he needs to do it, just be safe.

I have just been lurking on here as I'm intrigued however, I had to point out that it is highly amusing that no one has bothered to repspond to hairboy's daft remark!

I think you can be friendly without putting kisses on a message to a married/attached work colleague, just inappropriate and daft.

If it were me I'd be honest with DH and say "I felt a bit jealous when so-and-so sent you that message on Facebook. Is she always so familiar or do you think she's after you?"