To have left my son asleep in the car..

[monkeyfacegrace]

On the driveway, in the shade (for those boring ones of you),

while I dragged my husband-to-be indoors for a good hard sunny day lunchtime shag

I'm pretty damn liberal as a parent, but I would NEVER leave my child unattended iin the car for a "two minute shag". You get the child out of the car, put him to bed, (re-settling if need be) and then pick up where you left off...

In a seperate room.

And you do not partake in foreplay in a car that you or DP are in control of WHILE your DC is asleep in the damn vehicle.

stalking my profile now
That was written years ago, when I was about 19. Times change..

Any time of day is okay I guess- so long as your child isn't cooking whilst you get your rocks off.

Oh dear DCMP, I will ignore that last paragraph.

Yes ignore it- why did you cocking well post in AIBU? You dont really seem to grasp the concept. You asked- people have told, now you are bleating on about ignoring certain parts you don't like.

Peanut I said similar.

I find it quite odd that a parent can't put said child in their room and settle and then carry on with their sexual urges.

And no comment about the rest? No? Oh, is that because you realise that you are a fucking irresponsible, immature parent? And the rest of us have a point?

Nope, the paragraph wasnt relevant. id explained that bit further up in the thread. But I can explain again if you like?!

You seem to like this thread!

Nope again, Ive commented about the rest. See my posts about 3 pages back.
All taken on board and accepted.

Side note, If I, as a dyspraxic (and therefore very clumsy individual) can move my ds from his car seat to his bed, or his pushchair to bed, without waking him up, then I'm pretty sure either you or DP could have moved your DC

FGS - the issue here was to highlight the danger of children in overheated cars - the bitchfest is doing you ladies no favours - especially as you are trying to appear morally superior to the OP.

Out of interest, where was your 4 year old whilst all of this was going on?

This must be the judgiest, most po-faced thread that I've read in a long time.

All I did was gt over excited and made a poor judgement. I accepted it, read link, said I had taken it on board, yet the insults keep coming!

My backside is certainly burnt. 3rd degree I reckon. Ouch.

so if it was cold?

it would be ok?

What's the idea temp for a child in a car?

Corr dickie, if I answered that, the witches would have a field day!

It's not moral superiority, it's common frigging sense...

monkeyfacegrace, I like you. And I think you are right about what is behind the reaction of a lot of these people. Have a lovely wedding.

spero

So people cant call you a slag but you can call them witches? WTF? And you keep adding oh so funny and grown up things such as your burnt arse nobody else really cares you are looking like a total child now.

you care Gem You keep posting

It reminds me of what a Hindu friend said to me at University about a group of Muslim students who were getting upset over something. 'O if only they would just go and have some sex!' he sighed.

I do think it would probably solve a lot of world problems.

I too have been wondering about where your 4year old was
while you were getting jiggy with it?

Yes anyone who thinks behaving like an irresponsible teen is clearly 'not getting any'. What a misogynistic attitude...