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Victoria Beckham did she use gender selection IVF?

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melikalikimaka · 16/02/2011 14:04

Saw in paper you can select sex of your baby and it's only £14,000. They have been talking about having a girl for a very long time and now it is revealed that they are!I just find it fishy! £14 grand to them is nothing and she could keep trying. AIBU?

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Normantebbit · 16/02/2011 14:05

well the chances are always 50/50 so who knows?

MissVerinder · 16/02/2011 14:05

Apparently, they have no idea if it's a girl or not. She was on a US chat show last night.

lockets · 16/02/2011 14:06

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TattyDevine · 16/02/2011 14:06

YABU.

She has a 50/50 chance.

If it turns out to be a girl, it could have been IVF, or not, or gender selection, or not, its none of your flaming business.

melikalikimaka · 16/02/2011 14:06

She has been in America for a long time, where she can have it done. It's not allowed here. All of a sudden they are coming back here to live.

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HettyAmaretti · 16/02/2011 14:07

I have no idea. Why would I have? WTF would it have to do with you or I anyway???

TheseThingsAreGoodThings · 16/02/2011 14:07

So what if they did?

cantspel · 16/02/2011 14:08

I dont care but cant wait to see what next daft name they come up with

CMOTdibbler · 16/02/2011 14:08

Who cares ? Its up to them what reproductive choices they make

TotorosOcarina · 16/02/2011 14:08

fishy??

I wanted a boy first - got one

wanted another boy 2nd - got one

really, really wanted a DD 3rd, got one

wanted another boy this time, got one.

Its a 50/50 chance.

Its luck. and just because they had 3 boys first doesn't mean they can't naturally have girls.

And even if they did, why the hell do you care?

odd post !

EmmaBGoode · 16/02/2011 14:08

It's possible. Probably quite likely, actually. Especially as they live in LA and most fertility clinics there do PGD for gender selection. Of course, they will never tell if they have as I imagine that they would get a lot of stick.

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MissVerinder · 16/02/2011 14:08

Oh, Hetty, we are just pontificating. You know, for fun; because we can.

methodsandmaterials · 16/02/2011 14:08

Why do you care?

BluddyMoFo · 16/02/2011 14:09

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EmmaBGoode · 16/02/2011 14:09

melikalikimaka, is this something that you are interested in for yourself? You seem to have done your research.

ssd · 16/02/2011 14:10

wouldn't balme them

after having 3 boys I can imagine it would be nice to have a little girl

melikalikimaka · 16/02/2011 14:10

Is it a matter of 'I want, I get!' with her?

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fannyfoghorn · 16/02/2011 14:10

I think they have ensured it is a girl and I don't think it is 'just their business' if they did - I think gender selection is immoral.

HettyAmaretti · 16/02/2011 14:11

yy wacky name choices are interesting. Reproductive choices are not. To me at least.

Hope she has a good pregnancy and birth and a healthy child. Just as I would with anyone else. Further than that I couldn't give a fuck.

lockets · 16/02/2011 14:12

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megapixels · 16/02/2011 14:13

I think I remember reading that she would name a girl she had Luna.
(Not 100% sure though, I don't usually read celeb articles)

BluddyMoFo · 16/02/2011 14:14

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Vallhala · 16/02/2011 14:14

Good luck to her if she did. It's she who is going to have to bear and rear the child, not me.

Gender selection in this manner might become a bit of an issue if the majority of the world have access to it. As that is likely to be down to money I think it's safe to say that we're light-years away from needing to worry about the possible, alleged decisions of a very small minority.

LoveBeingADaddysGirl · 16/02/2011 14:15

Op your last postjust proves to me you are after her getting a battering on here, so are you a journo or just a shot stirer?