My childs future Godparent groped me

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To cut a very long story short me and OH have a friend who is in his seventies and last year lost his wife.
Me and OH are alot younger then our 'friend' and we let him spend Easter/Xmas etc with us as he told us how lonely and bored and sad he was.
We even asked him to be Godfather to my youngest(DS 2 aged 7m).My eldest(DS 1 age 2.5)loves our friend as he acts like the lovely grandad.
Anyway over the months he has been coming around during the daytime while OH is at work and I would make him lunch etc and he would play with DC..
Around two weeks ago he asked me what it felt like to have such a big bust and after that he grabbed my breasts and fondled me.
I grabbed his hand and told him he should not touch me in that way ever again and how dare he do that etc.
He then started shouting at me 'how dare you hurt my feelings and push my hands away..you horrible person'!
Anyway I've told OH that he gives me the creeps and he got 'touchy feely' and that's why I've ignored him recently.
I just admitted to OH that he touched my breasts and OH said 'are you sure you didn't ask for it'?
OH says he blames me!Maybe I shouldn't have been so nice and asked him around
Oh and to top it off said 'friend' is calling my house number and mobile everyday(10 to 20 times)and in the last 2 weeks he turned up at my house staring at me through the window and wouldn't go away.
I feel like I shouldn't have been so friendly with him-he now thinks he owns me.
I don't think he's a bad person he's just obsessed with me.
We live close and go to the same places.He's left me voice messages saying 'have you got a problem'? etc..
Don't know how to handle this situation.
Thanks for reading
(I've been here a while but name changed)

I didn't use the T word, I doubted the authenticity of the tale

Think that's the same thing!

solooovely , A person could make up or elaborate on a story without them being the T word...?

(The T word suggests that its their first post and that they are deliberately trying to be provocative. A regular poster could easily enhance a true story with some dodgy facts, that would make someone doubt the authenticity, rather than think they were the T word)

(this thread has only reappeared due to the "bullying" thread.....)

I wonder if we could have an update OP?

I thought a T (why aren't we spelling it out?) was anyone who told deliberate lies. No?

Never been interested in the whole T thing. Think that's because I just believe everything everyone says (mug, me?!)

I really don't like it though when people starting questioning the story. I think we should take everyone at their word, if not just for the fact that if they are being truthful doubting them could be very upsetting for them. I hate hurting anyone's feelings!